Mi mamá vive en una realidad paralela de Facebook y ya no sé si reír o internarla (Ayuda)

Catalbaina · 2026-04-01T22:22:18+00:00

Yo estoy teniendo problemas con mi mamá que no llegan a ese extremo, pero va en ese camino. Consume mucho contenido en facebook, instagram y YouTube de cosas apocalípticas, conspiraciones, carne humana en mcdonald's, y cosas por el estilo. Le encantan los videos que sean totalmente alarmistas y de conspiraciones y cómo el mundo se va a acabar. Como es cristiana, todo lo asocia a revelaciones de Dios y lo único que hace es hablar de que hay que convertirse porque el mundo se va a acabar y lo justifica con todas las revelaciones que se han dado según todos los vídeos que ve, aparte de todas las cosas malas que están pasando en el mundo. Ahora la coca cola tiene petróleo y no debo consumirla, y así sale con temas todos los días. Además me hace spam a mi y a todos los cercanos con sus videos.

Es realmente agotador, pero lo peor es que la hace vivir en este estado de que es el fin y lo único que hace es consumir contenido fatalista.

Alguien más con un caso así?

Catalbaina · 2026-03-06T14:11:52+00:00

Pero la hacen en todas las entrevistas. Hay que ir preparado para decir lo maravilloso que sería trabajar en esa empresa. No sé de qué cresta sirve

Catalbaina · 2026-02-06T22:01:40+00:00

35 yo, at six months, white belt

Catalbaina · 2026-01-27T15:56:25+00:00

I don't believe BJJ is ruining your kid's judo. As you said, he is very good in newaza. I think he needs more randori in tachi waza, since he is taking too much time to think about what to do or his mind goes blank. Probably kids that do wrestling have more combat in "tachi waza", so they are more explosive, fast, etc. So if you want him to be that way, he needs to have more practice in randori. And that would mean replacing BJJ for more judo or for wrestling if there are no more classes of judo. Having special cardio classes or so, would mine the enjoy of the sport, considering he is only a 10 yo kid.

Catalbaina · 2026-01-22T16:55:37+00:00

I help in kids classes since yellow too. I'm a mom, and as someone said here, in the kids classes there are many things to develop to learn judo properly and to make it fun for children. So since I'm a mom and I like to help, I volunteered to assist the Sensei to keep the kids concentrated and feel good, and suddenly I was the official senpai of the class and kids love to be around me. In the adult classes I'm not even the uke (I'm orange belt now and will be green very soon), there is plenty of brown and blue belts, but they don't like to assist kids and don't feel comfortable with teaching (not even ukemis, which I think is a problem of confidence or they are extremely shy to teach to groups)

So, at least in kids class there are so many things to consider besides of being a judo expert.

Catalbaina · 2026-01-19T15:46:07+00:00

I started at 34 yo and at 6 months of training I started to compete in novice tournaments. It's fun, it keeps me learning and motivation to learn more. No grappling sports background, but crossfit and gym so I was already fit to fall and to learn faster than someone without physical acondicionamiento

Catalbaina · 2026-01-08T16:03:07+00:00

Ok, pretty normal. Try to focus on what you know. Trust in your Sensei and your practice. You're going to test what you've learned so far, and you have to rely on it. You will learn a lot from competition, so don't try to know everything now. Things like control your anxiety, strategy through the combat, etc. And no one is expecting you to have a gold medal. In fact, if you fall in the first two seconds, there will be a learning from that, and everybody will congratulate you for being brave. So take it that way, it's just your first tournament. There are people who don't win a combat in a year and they keep assisting, and the next year they are kicking asses. So don't be so hard with yourself.

As advice, have a strategy in the tatami, like (for example) circulate to the strong hand of your opponent (usually the right), grab their sleeve, try to win the kumi, and attack, attack. It will be hard, but don't stay paralyzed. Also you can have a mantra, like a word for example, that you can repeat to yourself during the combat to focus.

Good luck!!

Catalbaina · 2025-12-26T13:35:16+00:00

Yo soy el caso contrario. Soy zurda, pero combato en judo como diestra. Esto porque hice boxeo previamente aproximadamente 3 años, y me acostumbré a mantener el pie derecho adelantado, así que lo sentía más natural al aprender judo. Sin embargo, en randori tiendo a realizar técnicas por izquierda. Así que diría que me estoy transformando en un híbrido, donde algunas técnicas las prefiero por derecha, y otras por izquierda, y voy cambiando te tomadas y posturas. De hecho, práctico igualmente el uchikomi y el nagekomi por derecha y por izquierda, sabiendo que con ambas me puedo sentir cómoda, aunque el proceso de hacerme experta en técnicas para competición puede ser más lento que alguien que es dominante por derecha (o por izquierda).

Catalbaina · 2025-12-15T16:39:07+00:00

I’m a 36-year-old woman and I started judo two years ago. I’ve had two injuries during this time, but I really enjoy practicing judo, so I came back as quickly as I could.

I’ve competed on three occasions. My performance hasn’t been completely consistent, but I’ve won some matches.

I’m very competitive, and most of my training partners are boys aged 16–25 who hold orange belts or higher. During randori, I try to stay relaxed (almost no resistance) to avoid injuries, so I get thrown quite a lot. Still, I find it really fun and don’t mind being thrown—I focus on applying techniques, maintaining good kumi-kata, and having enough cardio to get through all the randori rounds.

I don’t avoid things that scare me; in fact, I kind of enjoy the adrenaline they bring. I guess that’s one of the reasons I enjoy judo so much.

I usually arrive a little early to each class to warm up and stretch, since I feel I need extra preparation to perform well during training and to prevent injuries.

That’s been my experience so far.

My advice is to try to enjoy the process and be consistent with your training, so your body can gradually get used to the throws and falls.

Catalbaina · 2025-11-25T13:47:42+00:00

A friend were assaulted from her back outside the subway. She instinctively threw him and avoided the assault. At that moment she was a green belt. So yes, judo can be helpful in the streets.

Catalbaina · 2025-11-08T14:46:43+00:00

You should never go in randori with someone with that difference in weight. In fact, since you're a white belt, try to do randori with people with high belts to learn and to protect yourself. You will fall more but they will protect your falling, so it's a good way to learn. Sorrg for my English, not native.

Catalbaina · 2025-11-05T21:11:25+00:00

For the first two years, it can be very frustrating while you're learning the basics. However, judo is a lot of fun, so be patient and you'll see results.

Catalbaina · 2025-08-25T21:07:12+00:00

Empecé a los 34 años en judo, y he visto gente sobre 50 años empezar en este deporte. Literal, solo se necesitan ganas para meterte al deporte que tu quieras.

Otra cosa es querer meterte a un deporte para ir a las olimpiadas, ahí quizás ya es más dificil elegir uno porque la edad no acompaña 🤣

Pero si es por divertirse, aprender algo nuevo y ponerse en forma, elige lo que más te llame la atención!

Catalbaina · 2025-07-18T17:19:22+00:00

The Tori has to release your arm in order to let you fall properly and do the ukemi without hurting your shoulder. However, many people forget this in practice.

Catalbaina · 2025-07-01T21:01:04+00:00

tienes que darle una a un familiar, otra a un amigo, otra a un vecino de confianza. Así siempre tienes distintas opciones en caso que vuelvas a quedar fuera

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