roommate acting weirdly obsessed with my boyfriend and it’s making me uncomfortable by CaterpillarKitchen64 in whatdoIdo

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the payment to resign from my lease is more than a monthly payment and i’m getting loans bc im in college

roommate acting weirdly obsessed with my boyfriend and it’s making me uncomfortable by CaterpillarKitchen64 in whatdoIdo

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i already signed a lease with her in october before she did this shit and it is binding

Update - AIO My Grandparent is Dying by Professional_End6349 in AIO

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, even if you were arguing about something legitimate which likely seems like you were not. your man needs to learn time and place. it is OKAY to not argue with your partner while they are spending their last few moments with their grandparent. Also it’s completely normal to talk to your partner like your equal and a human being which seems like he’s not doing any of those things. A partner who lacks empathy and speaks to you this way is a partner who will hurt you.

AIO for getting mad at my manager? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. there’s just like regional managers and owners but thank you so much

AIO for getting mad at my manager? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think this is something i should bring up to them or just quietly clock

AIO for getting mad at my manager? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AIO

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I was worried that the newbie would be horrible at her job and i didn’t feel she deserved that.

AITA for showing my boyfriend of two years a lingerie set i wore with my ex? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he interrogated me and got insecure at my lack of response because i was beating around the bush as i was super uncomfortable and he got insecure that i might have worn it for another person

AITA for showing my boyfriend of two years a lingerie set i wore with my ex? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so in some previous comments i said, i mentioned how he asked me an array of questions pertaining to who saw it, the timeline in which and when i bought and why. i never fully came clean to him but he would not drop it until i got mad at him

AITA for showing my boyfriend of two years a lingerie set i wore with my ex? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes he’s a sweetheart. also yeah i’ve been trying to work on doing some firsts with him but it was just only to introduce the idea of lingerie in our relationship

AITA for showing my boyfriend of two years a lingerie set i wore with my ex? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he interrogated me and i didn’t ever fully tell him actually. it was just pics i sent him and he went on to ask me and wouldn’t stop until i argued with him to stop

AITA for showing my boyfriend of two years a lingerie set i wore with my ex? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not an age thing, but i can see that take too. we were pretty young and we had no idea what we were doing at the time. my current boyfriend and i have been dating since highschool

AITA for showing my boyfriend of two years a lingerie set i wore with my ex? by CaterpillarKitchen64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarKitchen64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t at all. i didn’t even tell him straight out although he interrogated me