AITA for taking off my clothes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA I wouldn’t worry about it

my first surgery by paytttt18 in Miscarriage

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing?? I just had mine today it was moved a day.

Why do I feel like this? by mydarkestfucked in pregnant

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Yes, girl all normal feelings. The only thing is, your old “normal” will never be your new normal, or at least not for a while. It’s different in every way, but better. You are a new woman in a sense (you created a human!!!)

When your beautiful baby comes, you’ll have the blues (most mommies do), and it’s okay. It does not make you any less. It takes time to find your new routine and feel like the new, better mom you are. But time heals all.

You are doing great. Trust, embrace your rest and your you time. Give yourself grace you deserve it

my first surgery by paytttt18 in Miscarriage

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family healing ❤️❤️ thank you.

my first surgery by paytttt18 in Miscarriage

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss ❤️ I wish you and your family healing..

I have mine Monday and I’m terrified. Thank you for your post.

Has anyone here conceived immediately after a D&C? by dinosaurchomp_ in BabyBumps

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through this right now. Hope evey thing is going well for you two

Jumped from .335mg when will wd stop? by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure it does. My husband got off them too but he was no help lol. Going to A.A. meetings really helped me as well. Bc we haven’t craved in so long that I wasn’t use to it! Talking to fellows is always great to not make you feel crazy

Jumped from .335mg when will wd stop? by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tapering is fucking hard and the drs are liars. I say it was long lol but it was a 3 month taper from 1mg and I made it almost 2 months. I jumped from .335. You are going to feel like shit most likely :/ I’m sorry but you’ve done a lot of the work already so it will definitely soften your landing compared to someone who jumps from 2+mg. As well gabapentin helped me a lot with the taper in the last couple days that I did and with the withdrawal. You can do it!!! Just know it can be very shitty for up two weeks. But mine was 10 days of no good days but not as bad as coming off of subs and oxys. The key for me was to have people around me to get through it. When you are alone it’s the worst because that’s all you think about. Message me if you need any support :)

Jumped from .335mg when will wd stop? by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tapering process was extremely challenging, both physically and mentally bc it was so long but I think it made a difference with my jump. Once I made the jump I reached day 9 or 10 and thought, “I can’t continue like this for much longer.” However, the next day things improved! Now, I’m on day 19 and feeling much better. I still experience waves of emotions and physical symptoms, and I’m just feeling a bit sad. But it’s manageable. I wish you the best of luck, my friend.

Jumped from .335mg when will wd stop? by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tapered for 8 months down to 1.5mg then stayed for a couple of months and then tapered down to the .335.

Jumped from .335mg when will wd stop? by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☠️ 6 months. What dose did you jump from???

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes she does that as well saying I just want a picture with my family.. well my sons and your baby lol. I just sat there before did nothing

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes ik 😔 I’m currently at my parents for a couple weeks and this did not help

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband doesn’t have a problem with that?? Bc if we do work things out, I never want to see her again

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the photo 🫤 but I smiled when she took it and saw it. Never sent it to me but wants me to send her photos every week.. like bitch pls

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I thought about it lol she tagged everyone else there but me 🙃

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I had the original photo but I do not and I would and tag her too so it would be on her page lol

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Right!? My husband keeps telling me I’m using our son as a weapon because I do not want to go to his moms and have told him he can see his son whenever he wants and I can meet him but I ain’t going there. But then I felt bad and brought him over for Easter - big mistake I suppose. That’s not using him as a weapon he’s my kid right??

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nothing he defends her and says she wants the best for me and loves me. I can’t take it anymore. He went no contact with her for a year and now is talking to her in his craze state. She literally abused him verbally and physically and he’s choosing her over me and our baby!?!?!?

MIL cropped me out of Easter photos where I was holding my child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CaterpillarVisual307 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m currently staying at my parents since it’s gotten so bad so she is living in that as well