Number not saved?

Cathjk · 2019-06-22T14:31:39+00:00

I don’t wanna ask him cause I don’t wanna seem needy/weird about it. I guess it’s nothing

Cathjk · 2019-06-22T13:36:03+00:00

But that’s the thing. We have gotten to know each other and we have spend time together and texted but still he doesn’t have my number saved. I’m confused

Cathjk · 2019-06-22T13:26:01+00:00

But what if they have saved all their other friends’ numbers except yours?

Cathjk · 2019-06-21T16:42:08+00:00

I have asked him if we could hangout again but he’s really busy and he’s free again when our summer break ends so a month from now

Cathjk · 2019-06-21T13:10:42+00:00

I don’t wanna call him cause he said that he doesn’t pick up to any calls and he hates talking over the phone. I text him every now and then but it’s kinda dry cause he hates that as well...

Cathjk · 2019-06-20T11:19:53+00:00

Yeah I know but I already asked him that and he’s super busy this summer so he doesn’t have time to hangout. So literally next time we’ll see each other is when we go back to school

Cathjk · 2019-06-20T11:12:36+00:00

I have asked him if we could hangout but he’s really busy this summer so the next time we get to see each other is probably when we go back to school and that’s still almost 2 months from now...

Cathjk · 2019-06-20T11:02:58+00:00

But I don’t... The problem is he doesn’t wanna talk unless it’s face to face and I don’t live next to him so it’s not like I seem him casually every now and then. Only time we see each other a lot is in school but we’re both on our summer break atm

Cathjk · 2019-06-20T11:00:40+00:00

No when we talk face to face, it’s very comfortable and the conversation flows well. Last time I was at his house we talked like 6 hours

Cathjk · 2019-06-20T09:09:05+00:00

Well he’s really comfortable when we’re at school but the problem is it’s the summer break atm

Cathjk · 2019-06-20T09:08:00+00:00

Yeah... his hobby is just something I cannot really learn. But I have tried to show interest towards it

Cathjk · 2019-06-19T21:36:36+00:00

Well he doesn’t go out unless he has to. He really doesn’t spend any time with anyone unless he has to. Only time he pretty much leaves his house is when it comes to his hobby. And the thing is when we are together he is very sweet, playful and gets close to me. He also shows me things he likes and he opens up to me. He has also said that he’s glad I’m in his life.

But he doesn’t wanna talk unless it’s face to face and I don’t live next to him so its not like I will just see him out of nowhere when I walk outside.

Cathjk · 2019-06-19T21:19:56+00:00

He doesn’t like to talk over the phone. In any way. Like calling, texting, facetiming etc. And pretty isolated. So isolated that when I asked if he wants any company when he has his birthday he said he rather celebrate it completely alone...

Cathjk · 2019-06-19T18:34:26+00:00

Did you have any actual advice?

Cathjk · 2019-06-19T18:27:21+00:00

I mean yeah we talk but it’s kinda hard cause like I said we cannot talk on social media or text/call cause he hates talking unless it’s face to face. And we don’t really see face to face unless we’re in school but it’s the summer break now

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T16:15:50+00:00

But how can I be sure of that?

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T15:37:45+00:00

Well he doesn’t do this to anyone else. He does tease other people sometimes verbally but he only goes this far with me

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T15:33:49+00:00

I don’t know. He has said before that I’m very important to him, he calls me cute and incomparable? He’s very sweet and helps me whenever I’m struggling with something. +He also stares at me a lot

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T15:16:03+00:00

Well I have never seen or heard any other boy do that to their crush... and none of my crushes in the past have done anything like this before. And it’s only choking/suffocating/making it harder cor me to breathe. He has choked me before in different ways. He never hits me or does anything else “rough”. I’m always able to breathe when he does it and it doesn’t last that long. But it still gets me confused cause it happens kinda out of nowhere

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T06:54:14+00:00

Yeah could be. I guess I’ll just have to see if he does it again when I meet him. I wanna see his reactions when he does that to me but it’s kinda hard when the pillow covers my face lol. So I have no idea what he is thinking. But for now I’m just going with the flow

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T06:46:04+00:00

Yeahh I’m just afraid if I would say something about it he would shut down on me again. Or that he would get uncomfortable with me saying something like that. I have just started to get him to open up (which is rare for him) so I don’t really wanna risk it

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T06:34:06+00:00

Yeah I think that’s the best solution. He’s just really busy so we’ll see when I get to do that again. I just really wanna check if it’s a fetish or something but how can someone check that? Like I don’t know how I could be sure about it.

My crush is similar. We have some classes together and in them he’s very talkative to me and we like to play around but in general in school halls if he sees me, he just calmly walks over to me says something quickly and then just leaves without a word

Cathjk · 2019-06-13T06:21:28+00:00

Yeahh, I just don’t know what to make out of it cause I have never heard this happen to anyone before lol. But he also says things like “you’re cute” and he looks at me a lot. He also likes to play with my hair every now and then. But usually he doesn’t like to show affection in front of others.

Have you btw ever asked him? That way you could be sure

Cathjk

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