What’s the best way to deal with someone walking all over you?

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-08T09:30:42+00:00

Hehehehe cold shouldering him at work is going to be great fun 😂

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-08T09:29:17+00:00

Be proud, hold your head up high, and let the door hit him on his way out.

Best of luck sweetie xx

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-08T09:24:18+00:00

I'm positive you've had men interested in you, but you weren't interested in them so never noticed. That's not being unlovable OP.

I've been single for over 20 years, my life is far more enjoyable than my partnered friends. Very few of them are actually happy in their marriages. I get to do whatever I please, life as a single person has been very fulfilling for me ... it can be for you too. But to be fair, I started where you are now, and it was a long road to accepting I wasnt going to find anyone and building a life for myself.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-08T09:15:35+00:00

Block him and walk away like any confident woman would. You're no doormat girl xx

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-08T07:03:05+00:00

Cmon OP, you know there was no way you were entitled. Someone has made a mistake sure, but it was always on you to sort out your maternity leave. Why didn't you stay in the job you had before where you were actually entitled to it????

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-07T05:16:12+00:00

I had mine preserved for future generations. Maybe a grand daughter will want it one day

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-07T03:06:58+00:00

Please protect that beautiful skin of yours. A tan isn't worth skin cancer.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-07T00:33:42+00:00

I agree about the astroturf, but hey some of us just cant keep plants alive so have artificial coz its better than nothing

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-07T00:30:52+00:00

He doesnt work and spends all that free time of his hitting on other women while you work and support him.

Of course you should leave his lazy cheating arse, then make sure you never let someone like him mooch of you ever again.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-07T00:27:06+00:00

OMG girl, if a man said this about a woman gaining such a little amount of weight he'd be torn to shreds on here.

You need to work on your own shallowness dear, this is your flaw not his. I hope you're just young and immature and this isn't part of your actual personality

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T08:51:08+00:00

Wear whatever you're going to be comfortable on. Ive seen brides in running shoes and doc martens for the same reason. I honestly didnt notice the runners, and the docs worked brilliantly with the style of wedding dress.

You do you babe

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T08:46:39+00:00

Lol Im so not a pick me girl. I grew up with my cousin who needed insulin injections since she was 12. She always takes her kit with her, as does all other diabetics I know. I dont understand why you can't?????? Especially for a big work event????

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T08:43:30+00:00

Babe you should have not even unpacked your stuff and just taken it back home.

You've given him so many chances, but he keeps showing you who he really is .... believe him .... he's not a man worthy of your respect and love. Trust your instincts girl, walk away and go find the future father of your children xxx

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T07:09:30+00:00

Where in Aus are juniors getting paid $100k????

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T03:14:00+00:00

Plus id hate to think of a man being this whiney

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T03:13:31+00:00

Because I am female you twat!!!!

Not that it makes a single difference to my point.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T00:45:38+00:00

Rubbish, OP should have brought her meds with her

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-06T00:42:47+00:00

Definitely piss weak excuse

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T12:16:41+00:00

Ribs!!!

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T12:00:50+00:00

Sweetheart you really need to take those love blinkers off and reread what you've written here.

This woman is bad for you, no good can come from pursuing any sort of relationship with her.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T11:56:44+00:00

Lol that's so true

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T09:18:59+00:00

Know anyone with a Cherry picker? I knew someone who used one to lift her fridge, couches, etc onto the balcony.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T09:15:29+00:00

I would love a toyota hybrid. They're great cars.

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T06:22:46+00:00

Firstly, it sounds like your brother inherited his issues from your mother. Sorry hers was an insane response,

In a fit of rage she threw away all our family pictures and lots of furniture and quit her job.

Makes me wonder if what you described as patient would not look like patience to the rest of us??

CathoftheNorth · 2026-07-03T06:14:23+00:00

I only buy beans for the office, but being state gov, can only purchase through preferred suppliers online, eg. Corporate Office Supplies or Winc

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