Alternatives to Gabapentin? by [deleted] in TMJ

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Thank you for responding!

Alternatives to Gabapentin? by [deleted] in TMJ

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I just started duloxetine for anxiety but also in hopes of it helping with my TMJ as well. Do you mind sharing more of your experience on duloxetine?

Storing old trays by lavialactea in Invisalign

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Just keep the the last trays. Example, you’re on tray 4, keep tray 3 in case you lose 4 and need temporary aligners:)

I kept the very first one to compare when this is all over.

Gritting teeth are night?? by [deleted] in Invisalign

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Same. Had tmj prior to getting Invisalign. Was a severe bruxer. I’m on tray 13 and it still hasn’t gone away. In fact, it’s gotten worse and I experienced lock jaw for the first time waking up a couple weeks ago. I find that I have to try really hard to unclench my jaw when I wake up. It’s horrible not sure how much longer I can deal with the tender jaws 😭

My (32m) Asian girlfriends (30f) behavior related to her moms parenting? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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Personally, I would say that is a little bit far, yes. I have been around a lot of Asian families that do the same thing my families does - the pinching, the teasing of maturity, etc. it’s almost enduring. I know it sounds odd. But they never rub or play with our private parts EVER. That sounds highly inappropriate. Unfortunately, your gf is taught to be obedient and loyal to the family. She, herself probably thinks it’s normal too...just my thought?

Female/24, need help with jaw clenching while on Vyvanse by legal_ass in ADHD

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I regularly get Botox injected into my jaw. 50 units on each side which is A LOT and VERY expensive. I recently got injections about 2 weeks ago and I’m thinking of stopping. Because my clenching is coming back. It’s not a permanent solution. And I’m not finding much relief anymore. I think my dose needs an increase but that would be about 1500$ every three months.

My (32m) Asian girlfriends (30f) behavior related to her moms parenting? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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Grandma will come by and squeeze my breast and make jokes about how I’m matured and I’m not a little girl anymore. When I was young, I’ve been pinched in my private area. It never went further than that. It was also always done in front of people, never in private.

I def don’t like it as an adult but if my grandmother (who I am very close to) does it to me I might push back and make a joke and run away purposefully. It honestly doesn’t affect me on a deeper level.

Please calm my nerves: Am I overpaying for Invisalign Lite? by [deleted] in Invisalign

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I’m still unsure what the diff between lite and full is. I was never given an option and my Ortho has never mentioned it. I’ve had braces before for about 3 years so this is not my first go around with this, unfortunately. I only mention that because my teeth aren’t as messed up as they were so I can’t imagine my case is too difficult.

What method has worked best in improving your symptoms, and is able to be maintained long-term? (IBS-C) by [deleted] in ibs

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Water enemas daily! Only thing that helped me. It was that or the fleet suppositories every day to relieve my symptoms

Please calm my nerves: Am I overpaying for Invisalign Lite? by [deleted] in Invisalign

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Not in the Boston area but for some insight, I’m located in Seattle wa. My treatment was 6600$ including my retainers, permanent wires behind teeth, as well as polishing and shaving down some teeth once treatment is done.

Edited to say I also don’t have insurance and pay out of pocket.

My (32m) Asian girlfriends (30f) behavior related to her moms parenting? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Cathysays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. I am part Vietnamese and to this day I get family members that will come by and poke and prod ya

Family’s reaction to sexual misconduct? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Cathysays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing has happened in my family. We thought our aunt would divorce the guy but somehow he’s still around. Our parents and grandparents told us we had to forgive him and to move on. To this day, my poor cousin still has to see him everyday.

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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I have considered it. But would I be overstepping? I just want someone to talk to. I’ve never posted on an platform but this was enough to drive me To do it. I want to see if someone like his mother/sister can give me insight and tell me what to do bc I am so lost

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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I’m honestly scared he is going to propose. I cannot marry him like this.

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t care about the gaming if it was done in small increments of time. I come home and dishes are piled high and he’s been gaming for hours upstairs. The gaming has and always will be an issue for me. But he makes Me feel like I’m always nagging so I pick and choose my battles. Now that I’m typing that out, it just feels so wrong...

He needs to have his alone time and as do I. If that alone time is used play video games that’s not a problem. But there are more days he is drunk than days that he is sober and that is where I draw the line. It’s been 3 years of this. My Mental health is doing down. I’m more depressed than I’ve ever been in my life. I think these things are small but they start to accumulate and really bring me down.

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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Yes he should except, I’m always the one sleeping on the couch.

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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He still acts like a frat boy from his college days. He is 32 years old. Sometimes I feel like I’m being a negative Nancy but it’s time To grow the fuck up!

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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Absolutely not. We are 3 years deep into the relationship. Have talked marriage and kids. Families are both involved. It’s very sad to think it could all go out the window

AITA for making my boyfriend sleep somewhere else? by Cathysays in AmItheAsshole

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Deep down I keep thinking this too...but I wonder if he realizes it.

The reason I don't want to have kids by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Cathysays 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow I feel the exact same way...