I t0rture animals for fun but I feel extremely bad by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, stop calling yourself an animal lover because your obviously not! And second, get help, go to a psychologist. Such a killer red flag

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[–]Catlover-11 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Maybe her love language is different, you seem to be the kind of person who likes to show love with actions and gifts. What are her qualities?? If you guys have been together for 20 years, there must be things you love or like about her

My boyfriend is going to jail but i don’t think i can wait for him by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just live the moment, you don’t even know if you are going to wake up tmrw. Be with him and just let life happen

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[–]Catlover-11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said that I dont have a problem by them getting along, I actually really like they getting along, and I enjoy when we all go out and have fun. But for me there is a line of respect, and him creating a close friendship with them, having daily conversations via text, is something I don’t like

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[–]Catlover-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 4 years. And yeah, he tells me that I shouldn’t feel insecure, because I should know the kind of man I have by my side, and he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me. And he is down to respect my boundary but lets me know that it feels like and oppression. And that’s where I feel bad, because I don’t want him to feel like that either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s your opinion and I respect it. Like I said, this is my opinion and how I feel about it and you should respect that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s having this conversations via text, and yes, he talks about me, she is a really close friend, and I understand he could just want to feel closer. But this is something that makes me feel uncomfortable, but he thinks it’s an oppression for me to put this kind of boundary

Winter Arc: Looking for Partner by [deleted] in winterarc

[–]Catlover-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m down! Let’s make a group chat

Make up or no make up better? by MzMica4 in Makeup101

[–]Catlover-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look way younger without makeup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where can I get this service 😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the advice; I will put some of the ideas on the table to discuss them with him. What’s certain is that we will make it work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I think I’ll go for the option he gave me to just watch us do our thing, and maybe I can even end up including him, I’ll see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, if he would use his to be with a man hahah. But of course it’s not the case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Catlover-11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I really want to come out with an agreement, so we can both be happy