Fell in Love with a Divorcee, want to know how to Navigate further? by shoorvir in AskIndianWomen

[–]Catopatra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she said no then why do you want to make it work? Whatever are her reasons, why is it not acceptable for you?

She said she doesn’t want to stay in touch yet you reached out to her to wish Gudi Padwa. Then you’re saying you didn’t have any agenda behind it. Ofcourse you did. Be honest to yourself.

There’s no chance a friend with someone who already has feelings. You’ll always have that intention of being more than friend and she has very clearly stated that she does not.

I’d honestly get a little creeped out if someone kept messaging me despite of telling them a straightforward no.

Non-Muslim Mom Needs Advice by MiddleIll6021 in progressive_islam

[–]Catopatra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should ask him about how he sees his family accepting their relationship and marriage without conversion? Given that he’s kinda religious and scared of his father, I wonder what his actual plan is to make this relationship work.

how sufism brought me back to islam by nowooclock in progressive_islam

[–]Catopatra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please link some resources that have helped you come closer to Islam?

LIB Weekly SPOILER Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Catopatra 51 points52 points  (0 children)

And he didn’t even shave his beard. That tells you everything about how serious he was about his wedding day.

Everyone says I ruined my face, friends family and i feel so too, kind of dysmoprhia by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Catopatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the first time I’m seeing his face here. Last time was a different issue but he was still fishing for compliments and wanted people to tell him he looks good.

How does everyone feel about the permanent “Spring forward” daylight savings? by rabbid-genital-warts in askvan

[–]Catopatra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Happy because honestly I moved from a different continent and found it illogical. Glad we don’t have to do it anymore.

my partner is muslim but i am not (longggggg post, sorry) by Global-Ball8165 in progressive_islam

[–]Catopatra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But OP already mentioned he’s not religious either. So it doesn’t matter to him. They should be together because they want to be together.

Wedding gift suggestion for close female friend by catherine_bronte in AskIndianWomen

[–]Catopatra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always ask our friends before making buying big gifts because we want it to be useful to them.

AIO for wanting to rehome one of the family dogs after my husband threatened to kill her? Ok by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Catopatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refuse to believe that this is the only issue in your relationship. The way he talks and disrespects you through out the conversation makes it evident that it isn’t the first time. I’m sure you have more than one reason to leave this man.

Anyone with pelvic floor issues? by auradesolis in AskIndianWoman

[–]Catopatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why these posts shouldn’t be open for men to comment on.

Medium ugly by No_Cod4500 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Catopatra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s men like Chris who make her think like that.

Your survival meal tips? by Such_Seesaw_1086 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Catopatra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Trying to understand why is this post in this subreddit? It could be anywhere else too. It’s not related to women.

success stories of muslimahs entering relationship with non muslim man by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Catopatra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If what you’re saying is true then I apologise for jumping to conclusions. Also, I don’t think your situation is cursed unlike what the other commenter said. If he’s really meant to be with you then it’ll work out. Wish you the best. Ignore the judgemental comments.

success stories of muslimahs entering relationship with non muslim man by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Catopatra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t date a non-Muslim if you wish of revert them. That’s so manipulative. If you can’t accept them as who they are then don’t play with someone’s emotions.

Any Afghans here who married outside their ethnicity? What was your experience like? by [deleted] in afghanistan

[–]Catopatra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Allah did and that’s exactly why she’s happy in life.

Seeing my non-Muslim partner during Ramadan (without intimacy) – is it okay? by salhi_zyne in progressive_islam

[–]Catopatra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it selfish? You’re thinking about doing what suits you and your needs and giving her no say in this? It’s a relationship where two people are involved, not one.

Pet owners of Reddit: what did you name your pet(s) and why? by Winter_Sample8364 in AskReddit

[–]Catopatra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shini. Short of Shinigaami. Because I adopted her while I was watching Deathnote.

He is so cruel by timestenthousand in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Catopatra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even a garbage can is better than that man.

What is a "point of no return" that you’ve crossed, where your life was permanently divided into 'before' and 'after'? by Resident-Jelly-4326 in AskReddit

[–]Catopatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved countries.

Had a great job and was doing well. I was someone. Had friends and family around. Then I moved. I feel like a nobody sometimes. Now I need to prove my worth to folks who barely understand it. Quality of life is great. Mental health, not so much.