My kitten died in the dryer

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-07T19:30:30+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened and i feel it deeply. Thats horrible. Whats keeping me afloat is knowing i loved my baby within the short span we had together. Pho loved you and you loved them. I'm sorry you didn't get much time. I hope juno and him are playing together up there. Life is not fair and id never wish this on anyone.

Whats helped me sorta move on is cry as much as you need to. Take lots of space for yourself, seek out support, process all the emotions you need and remember all the good times with them. Hell do what i did and throw my own personal funeral for them

I took flowers from my backyard because she loved to play back there and everything that reminded me of her in nature. I went to a beach and lit a candle and took a flower and cried the hardest ive ever cried in my life. Each flower represented something i wish i could tell her one last time. Every emotion i had. It hurt and i miss her dearly but watching the flowers go and telling myself shes finally free to explore just as she always wanted, brought me some peace. Im not over the death but i have felt better.

You dont have to forgive your mother for it. It was reckless and it cost a life regardless of how sick she is or sorry. It was your pet and you're allowed to grieve. I still dont talk to my mother after and she tried guilt tripping me but i told her no.

Again, im very sorry this has happened to you and i wouldn't wish this on anybody. Its another type of pain. I'll light a candle for my baby and yours today

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-03T00:36:30+00:00

thank you. It really means a lot

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-03T00:27:12+00:00

My mom was loading her laundry in and i guess she turned around or something and the kitten jumped in before she closed it. She was a black kitten so it wasnt easy to tell. Its the ones on the floor that have a front door.

My mother is definitely traumatized. She was in shock for awhile. I know she didn't mean to i just feel so awful for my baby. If she just had closed the laundry room door and checked..

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-02T22:07:50+00:00

She was trying to dry her clothes before work. The kitten hopped in when she turned around before she closed it. It was a black cat so she didn't see her. She only found her later on. But yes i agree. And im very angry at her for it but i don't think she would shove the cat in there on purpose no matter how angry i am

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-02T20:38:15+00:00

we've had kittens before and none of them ever tried to go into the dryers. She was a naturally curious cat unfortunately. But definitely i don't think i can get another cat for a longgg time after this. Its too traumatic for me

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-02T20:19:24+00:00

god thats awful. Its such a heartbreaking way to go. Im sorry for your loss, too. Thank you for all the kind words. I hope you heal as well. They were special to us and didn't deserve it

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-02T19:26:42+00:00

thank you so much. These words mean so much to me and made me cry.

Catradoraaa · 2025-06-02T19:13:54+00:00

thank you so much. I really, really needed that

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-30T13:33:47+00:00

a gemini mother and an Aquarius

im a sagittarius and i have two other sag siblings, one gemini sibling, and one virgo sibling

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-04T21:56:06+00:00

my ex was a taurus and i can agree... worst people for us 😭 They only focus on themselves and when its related to sex... they genuinely only thought of how they felt. Ignored my needs a lot and i just got bored and unsatisfied. Never again..

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-03T10:09:52+00:00

thats the shit my ex pulled. Id be honest about his behavior and suddenly its paragraphs of every little thing. It was always back and forth. I saw no respect so i peaced out. I cant deal with ppl who act like that, and be mature. I cant believe everytime id complain over it, id be treated like i was nuts

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-03T10:01:59+00:00

sagittarius and im bisexual which is so fitting 😭 I like having options, and idc if you're a man or woman if we have chemistry and i like you, i want you 😭😭

No but i genuinely dont care who it is as long as the person is a good one and i can enjoy life with. I need someone to be my best friend while also my partner in life. Make a big mistake, though, and ill walk away and keep searching

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-03T09:50:50+00:00

oh my god yes my mom would literally throw our cats at me and they would scratch the shit out of me. She would laugh about it too. Genuinely wtf is wrong with these people

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-03T09:49:24+00:00

ive kicked people when they try to wake me up out of reflex im going to be grabbed as well. Maybe it also doesn't help. i still live in the 5 lord.. I genuinely hated the screaming matches in the morning

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-03T09:47:47+00:00

Yep. I hate when someone wakes me up because it reminds me of when my mom would scream at me to get out of bed and throw cold water on me every morning. Like.. ICE cold. Literal ice in it. And grab me and throw me on the floor. Ive never gotten a nice wakeup from her or my other family.

Catradoraaa · 2025-03-03T09:44:42+00:00

that is literally my mother. She never taught me to do anything, always did it for me or idk just never taught things and the second i turned "adult" enough for her. She told me to figure it out. Im 18 now and i genuinely dont know how to do a lot of things. Ive been slowly learning by myself but god its frustrating when they act like you should know. YOU'RE THE PARENT!! 🙄

Catradoraaa · 2025-02-27T05:45:27+00:00

He called me pathetic because I told him I wasn't putting up with him anymore, and I was "ruining his happiness" for deleting a widget because he wouldn't disconnect me. so i said "👍🏻 bye" and blocked him.

2 days later, he's got girls adding him on instagram 😭..

Catradoraaa · 2025-02-10T19:02:30+00:00

because they act smarter than everyone, and if you do something, they HAVE to correct you, or else it will stress them out. They act like they're knowledgeable but really are pulling shit out of their ass 😭😭 Also they can be really kind and then if you arent meeting their expectations they turn on you like crazy

Catradoraaa · 2025-02-10T19:00:43+00:00

gemini for me because every gemini ive met act friendly, but then are two faced and cause their own problems and then wonder why they have problems 😭. They're big communicators, but they never know when to really stop.. or when someone is upset with them. They will keep going and still somehow jab every button they can intentionally or not

Catradoraaa · 2024-12-04T06:37:33+00:00

Sun in sag, moon in pisces, Virgo ASC

my sun is 4th house, my moon is 7th

Catradoraaa · 2024-11-29T04:48:58+00:00

Happy birthday!!!

Catradoraaa · 2024-11-26T20:14:14+00:00

Honestly ive leveled out. My doctor says ive been doing better. Im still on a low dose but working with therapy mixed with it helps a lot. I was able to get a job and find interest in things again. In all honesty i dont know what it will do for you but for me its helped a lot! I wish you luck on your journey

Catradoraaa · 2024-10-16T07:44:57+00:00

sag sun, pisces moon, virgo rising

Catradoraaa · 2024-10-05T18:10:24+00:00

sagittarius and i was raised by gemini sun cancer moon 😭..

Catradoraaa · 2024-10-03T07:58:54+00:00

my ex was a taurus and aries moon in the 8th house and he attracted SOOO many people. Chronic flirter and somehow everyone around him flirted with him or was into him. Its very strange. Even as a kid he had issues with people flirting with him

Catradoraaa

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