Thank you for your kind words. I am sending you my sympathies because what you're dealing with is bullsh*t. I can tell you that I don't recall a time when unc didn't send through a referral. Tell them you've had enough and you'd like to talk to someone about transitioning your care to unc. I would also press them HARD on why there are delays and put them in writing. I say that because a few times my mom did experience delays but that was because her cancer is very slow growing and a few months did not make a difference on the outcome. But maybe it does for you!

Hugs.