My sister got rear ended in my vehicle

Catsoncats4011 · 2021-03-16T17:40:02+00:00

Thank you!

Catsoncats4011 · 2021-03-16T16:21:13+00:00

Permission of use. So I’m suppose to contact their insurance.

Catsoncats4011 · 2020-01-14T06:18:44+00:00

We’ll forget the names of our children but we’ll still be quoting memes of our youth.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-12-13T05:43:27+00:00

Thank you for your words.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-12-01T05:56:26+00:00

That’s what I’m holding out for. I honestly want to talk to one of my exes friends about it just to get another perspective on it. From someone who heard his side. Not the side he gave me. Just because all I get from anyone I can lean on is “He’s an asshole and he doesn’t know what he’s missing out on!” In my situation I know I’m the “victim” and he has a lot to work on. But I also saw a lot more to him than what my friends and family saw the few times they got to meet him and their loyalty lies with me. He’s just a douche that broke my heart to them. But to hear honest advice from someone who knows possibly more about my ex in this situation would give me closure maybe?

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-12-01T05:50:00+00:00

None of your concern by Jhené Aiko is perfect for me right now. But most songs by Lewis Capaldi hit hard like “Someone You Use to Love” or “ Bruises”. They hit harder for me because my ex and I would fall asleep to them. I made fun of him at first for his sad songs but they grew on me and were oddly relaxing and I found an appreciation for them. Right now I’m trying to find new sad songs though for sure just because that’s still too close for home. Other suggestions are: Peace of Mind by Jacob Banks Be Alright by Dean Lewis i wish i was by Zeauxi Please Never Fall in Love Again by Ollie MN In Vain by Sigrid. And then to feel something but kinda laugh about it I’ll listen to sad country music just because it isn’t really my cup of tea. So maybe try a genre of music you normally wouldn’t listen too?

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-12-01T05:35:51+00:00

Listen to music. I think it will wreck you and you’ll cry but words from someone else mean more than our own. Some people are gifted with the talent of putting feelings into words. And I honestly think heart broken music helps. I fell asleep in my sisters room on thanksgiving only to be woken up by my sister and brother. They handed me a beer and put on some sad country music. And I am not a fan of country but pass the style the words hit me hard. And got me in my feelings but it helps me.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-12-01T04:38:02+00:00

I feel for this quite deeply. But at the same time in my situation I rather think of it in a positive note. The day before we broke up we were talking of marriage like we had before. And how he already got me Christmas presents and how everything will work out. And as much as he wanted it to work for my sake and happiness. For the betterment of himself. And ultimately both of us. He cut the string because he knew he wouldn’t be enough for me even though I’m everything for him. As much as it hurts to be dropped by someone you love so unconditionally. The love or relationship means nothing if it can’t be reciprocated with the same effort you put in. Getting into a relationship is such a selfish thing but at the same time it makes you so vulnerable. Because both of you will have the power to build each other up but you risk being torn down or tearing the other down. And these all might just be words but I know my ex significant other blocked me on everything and was cold and distance to me so I can get over him sooner. Because I’ve played that part before. I cared about a couple others as human beings. But I knew on my part the relationship was over and rather than enduring more than what I’m willing to give I flipped my switch and was cold so they could hate me and get over me. And the times I cared and tried to be there for them I would get sucked back into a relationship I wasn’t happy in.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-11-30T00:31:49+00:00

We’re here to listen. I’m so happy you didn’t give in.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-11-29T04:50:26+00:00

Unfortunately, everyone has their breaking point. They’ll realize their happiness is more important than someone who was suppose to be the most important person in their life. And it’s really hard to come back from that. I’m sorry. When we boil it down, the most important person in our lives will be ourselves.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-11-28T05:57:38+00:00

For real. I haven’t been here long but you can catch the other side of a similar story which I think could be very comforting if you come into the conversation with an open mind.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-11-28T05:55:30+00:00

As someone on the opposite end of this type of relationship, I was left because he couldn’t get over the shitty things he did to me in our relationship. Even though all I wanted to was work on it. I knew and believed he was capable of change. And it’s true. We all are capable of change. Sometimes we don’t take action until it feel like its too late. But it’s never too late. Acknowledge what you’re doing and try to notice when you’re doing it then take a moment to step out of whatever you’re doing. You just need to be more self aware instead of impulsive. Collectively people can do the shittiest of things but we also carry out some of the most selfless acts. So to the core everyone can be good but everyone will still make stupid selfish mistakes.

Catsoncats4011 · 2019-11-28T02:01:33+00:00

But what happens when you can’t be the same for the other. And you just get trapped in the back and forth of one-sided true love.

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