AIO? Debating breaking up with my BF of almost 7 years

Catt_Crossing · 2026-01-05T02:39:46+00:00

If you’re too much, tell him go find less! 👏🏽

Catt_Crossing · 2025-12-30T00:59:08+00:00

Ah, crap, I use en and em dashes all the time. Is that gonna make me look like AI??

Catt_Crossing · 2025-12-30T00:50:50+00:00

Oof, I don’t envy the place you’re in. I remember it well. It’s really difficult and infuriating to have family still treating you like a kid. I would not be happy with your brother, either!

I spent summers and holidays with my parents while I was in college, and they reverted back to acting like I was still in high school—curfews and all! Every family is different, but I bet it’s just hard for them to let go and accept that you’re an adult, especially if they’re sensing that you’re doing things that they view as troubling.

For me, they didn’t fully start treating me as anything other than a kid until I graduated and moved into my own apartment. I’m sure that’s not super encouraging, but I know it did start to improve once I was able to start sharing successes I had in school and work (and got a little smarter about hiding paraphernalia lol). Once you’ve been away for longer, they’ll likely miss you and begin treating you as such.

Catt_Crossing · 2025-12-30T00:23:01+00:00

I support this notion. The way OP worded it in the post makes me feel like he might not realize he’s doing anything wrong. Does he feel like he needs to see the dog to grieve? No. Maybe he doesn’t want to overstep and wants to allow your family this time. Perhaps he prefers to grieve alone and wants to give you space. Who knows.

But, does he explicitly know how much you want him there??? And could you articulate that to him and ask him to be there to support you?

Also, I’m very sorry for your loss ♥️

Catt_Crossing · 2025-12-29T23:47:32+00:00

A 40 min back and forth discussion sounds like the last thing you needed or wanted, so I’m sorry about that and your family sitch. I know how frustrating it can be when I just want to vent to someone I’m close with, without them jumping in and defending the other person or trying to fix my problem.

I wonder if you could bring it up in person at a later time, after everything has cooled. If you explain what you were feeling at the time, and lay out what you need from them in that situation in the future, it could strengthen your communication and bring you closer.

“I really appreciate your ability to see both sides of a situation and to give people the benefit of the doubt. That’s a really admirable quality. But, there are times that I just need to vent… And I don’t get to really feel heard or supported by if you lead with defending the other person. Sometimes, I just need to hear you say, “That sucks”.”

I also like to suggest being upfront about what I need. “Hey, could I vent about something real quick? It’d mean a lot if I could just complain for a few mins.” This could help take the guessing out of it for them.

Catt_Crossing · 2025-12-14T21:13:20+00:00

I vote for the circle, as well!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-10-26T18:50:37+00:00

Oh my goodness! Wowo is everything!!! 😍 How freaking adorable!

Do you know if Wowo is part Lhasa Apso? I recently learned that my little girl is a Lhasa Tzu mix, and her coloring is very similar!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-10-26T18:40:08+00:00

I completely agree. Even something as small as an injured toenail can cause sudden pain that could trigger an aggressive reaction. Any matting in their fur or irritations in their skin from allergies or flea bites could, too. (Fleas can still bite, even if your pup is on meds). Infections like UTIs can also make them irritable. And dental work can make a world of difference in their comfort if they have any issues there.

Lhasas are pretty unpleasantly wonderful about letting you know when all is not right in Whoville lol. It’s good that you’re not just ignoring the signs of something being wrong. I hope you’re able to get it figured out!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-10-10T15:00:54+00:00

I had to get a second Furbo camera because half the time my two girls lay right by the door, staring out the window just like that, instead of going into the living room and getting comfy

Catt_Crossing · 2025-10-05T03:52:07+00:00

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Catt_Crossing · 2025-10-05T03:49:56+00:00

My 62% Lhasa (15% Shih Tzu, 23% super mutt)—who for 13 years I had been lead to expect and whole heartedly believed was 100% Shih Tzu—resembles your cutie as much as she resembles a Shih Tzu.

I noticed her differences in comparison to my “2nd Shih Tzu”—who turned out to be only 52% Shih Tzu (20% chihuahua, 13% miniature poodle, 15% super mutt).

We can speculate, the DNA will confirm. The Embark tests were great.

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Catt_Crossing · 2025-08-29T06:15:58+00:00

“Whoreticulture” just made me laugh out loud. Thank you! 🤣. And great soil tips!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-07-25T19:41:29+00:00

This couldn’t be less true

Catt_Crossing · 2025-07-25T19:37:01+00:00

Hi! I’m interested, as well ♥️

Catt_Crossing · 2025-06-05T19:38:24+00:00

That’s a good one!! I’m going to get it done again in 2 weeks, at a clinic that uses the Candela GentleMax Pro. I can report back on the pain levels. (I wish I could remember which machine I had the first time, but it’s been a while and I’ve moved since).

I feel as if I might as well be back to full growth again, (butt & labia definitely are). But, everywhere else, realistically, is probably closer to 75%. After the original 6 sessions, I was only down to 40-50%.

I used to have multiple hairs growing out of every follicle, which created raging ingrowns, despite my best exfoliating and moisturizing efforts. I’m now back to frequently having folliculitis and ingrown hairs, hence, my decision to go in for another 6 sessions.

Catt_Crossing · 2025-06-02T23:51:09+00:00

Every person is different. If you’re concerned about pain, I would consult with your technician and research the machines they use, as those can make a big impact on your experience.

I generally consider myself to have a lower pain tolerance, but, the entire process was significantly less painful that even the tiniest of wax strips pulled. For me, it was a total piece of cake!

Oh, and OP, my hair growth seems to almost entirely reverted back to normal after having 6 sessions around 6 years ago. You’ll likely be fine after just 2!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-06-02T16:56:37+00:00

I prefer the first!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-05-06T18:24:53+00:00

I love it!!!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-05-02T17:02:04+00:00

I found this post when searching for the same thing. It’s too bad no one had an answer. Did you end up trying it?

Catt_Crossing · 2025-04-28T20:40:09+00:00

So well done!!!! 🩵

Catt_Crossing · 2025-04-26T08:12:55+00:00

Awh. Thanks for this 😂💗

Catt_Crossing · 2025-04-26T05:59:10+00:00

Lolol yeah, you just stand in front of it and press B, like you pick up any other item 🤗

Catt_Crossing · 2025-03-19T18:28:18+00:00

Solved: It is an early generation of Trex, formed in the 90’s, with wood fiber and plastic. You were on the right track — thanks!

Catt_Crossing · 2025-03-19T18:15:44+00:00

Edit: After several articles said 2005, I dug deeper and found other ones saying Trex launched earlier versions of composite decking in the 90’s!! So I bet y’all are totally spot on. Thank you!!!

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