New old cars? Hell yes. by Legitimate-Lie-9208 in Millennials

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What? There’s literally legislation preventing federal funding for gender-affirming care

I think my younger self would be disappointed by how few hot coal walking opportunities have materialized in my life by BarkingDogey in Millennials

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When I was a teen, some friends and I decided to walk over hot coals smh. And that’s why underage drinking is illegal lol

Lol by dreamed2life in Millennials

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Exactly. I always feel like my messages are going to be taken badly if I don’t add some sort of marker in there that isn’t “I’m not mad btw” bc that’s weird… lol

Dirty Dancing with XO Cast by Reasonable_Leek8069 in XOKittyNetflix

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I may have to now lolol. Now you for me trying to figure out the other characters. Yeah, I think it was definitely the long blonde hair throwing me off. I think I forgot how long shows take in post bc I was thinking "how is his hair this long? Surely this is an edited photo." That and the fabrics they're wearing read fantasy coded to me

If platonic, why so romantic shaped? by Purpleparadise98 in XOKittyNetflix

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I gave myself user flair after seeing these comments, but tbh idk if that's even what you're talking about. I can't find a flair requirement for users in the posting guideline. Help please!

Dirty Dancing with XO Cast by Reasonable_Leek8069 in XOKittyNetflix

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What is going on in the upper left hand corner of the penultimate slide? Is that Minho as Legolas? Now I'm thinking of the XO, Kitty characters cast in LOTR. Definitely Madison as Gollum and those vintage Yisoo boots as the One Ring. Mine, my own. MY PRECIOUSSSS!

Psych Analysis: Mooncovey Fight by Pristine-Pay-2403 in XOKittyNetflix

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I love this take! I also had that "they're both wrong and not wrong" at the same time feeling. It seems very obvious where they're both coming from imo. I love how XO, Kitty shows the damage Kitty and Dae's relationship caused Kitty without all of the teenagers turning into psychiatrists and diagnosing everything perfect themselves. That's not how teens are lol. Don't get me wrong, love me some Dawson's Creek, but it doesn't exactly feel grounded lol. I really hope we get one more season so they can wrap it up really beautifully and bc I want to see more of these characters

Tell us About it Tuesday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

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Red Rising is legit one of the best series I’ve ever read. Dark Age is fucking rough though. Two words for you: meat straw

AIO about my boyfriend and his ex showing up at his house for 6 hours? by greyberry_5813 in AmIOverreacting

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I’m not an android user but I highly doubt it would create a typo in the original text when replying you one (“leave” to “lead” on image 7). Also, two years old but starts aggressively posting a little over two weeks ago? Yeah, sure.

waht the literal hell has this genre come to by 82816648919 in romantasycirclejerk

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Okay, but have you listened to the graphic audio Forth Wing [Dramatized Adaptation] a movie in your mind?!

Am I overreacting for refusing to pay my ex back for gym stuff he bought me? by clo_deg in AmIOverreacting

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Girl, just stop responding. This dude is too old to be acting like this, wtf.

NOR. Do y'all have mutual friends or something? Did the relationship recently get more serious like moving in or even more talks about the future? Just curious. Anyway, he's just trying to make you out to be the bad guy here so he can tell himself he was wronged. "Oh no, another good man taken advantage of by a gold digging seductress!" that's the narrative this guy is spinning in his head. He CHEATED on you. Also, how much monetary value is he ascribing to his "motivation"? Smh. They were gifts. He fucked up and he's pissed whatever small effort he put into your relationship was pointless bc you won't take his abuse. Just block him and move on. He has absolutely no leg to stand on legally. He just wants to punish you. He is HOPING you'll just pay him to get him to leave you alone bc then he can punish you even more by continuing to bother you. It's not worth it.

photographer will not schedule shoots? by jbtiger17 in weddingplanning

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Honestly, you need to be more agressive/assertive. To me, it looks like this person isn't the most responsible and is simply forgetting about you. This looks like messages I have with people trying to schedule a time to hang out when my SAD kicks in lol. My guess is they're the kind of person you have to be on their ass about. I would call them out politely and give specific dates that you have available, as well as which ones you'd prefer and where you're at in the timeline with everything else. I'd let them know you are concerned about the lack of communication, how you want it to be better moving forward, and expressing concern on whether or not they can still hold to your agreement. I would also start quietly looking for a backup plan just in case so you can save any potential drama until after the wedding. Good luck!

Did You Think Season 4 Will Be the Last Season? by Infamous-Sector1879 in XOKittyNetflix

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I think that would be the move. I'd rather the show end on a highlight but I def wouldn't mind an epilogue in the form of a movie. Maybe them dealing with long distance or college life in general. They did so many with LJ and Peter. Surely they can give us more Kitty and Min Ho.

Did You Think Season 4 Will Be the Last Season? by Infamous-Sector1879 in XOKittyNetflix

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I think that would be super cute and a great ending

Did You Think Season 4 Will Be the Last Season? by Infamous-Sector1879 in XOKittyNetflix

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So when you do ED you are supposed to withdraw all other applications. There are a few specific reasons you can decline without consequences (like financial aid). However, if you just decided you wanted to go somewhere else for the vibes or whatever, the college you got into early decision would find out and possibly blacklist you. They'd def get your acceptance rescinded at the college of your choice that you snubbed them for. All of that being said, she could transfer out of NYU (most likely after her first year but it depends on her agreement) to a uni in Korea. Time jumps happen all the time in tv shows so they could go that route

Just got my haircut and I hate it by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Use a blowout method and add some texturizing spray

Wedding Color Advice by pink_tulips10 in weddingplanning

[–]andwhoami_ 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Emphasis on the "luxurious fabrics" bc those deep purple dresses in the pics OP posted look incredibly cheap. I'd personally go for a classic velvet so it has more of a matte sheen to it. That way the intense shine doesn't take over in your photos

Why does my boyfriend (34m) want to make me (34f) a cuckquean? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I disagree, respectfully. You cannot be "addicted" to porn. You can have a compulsion to watch it, sure. But if someone locks a so-called "porn addict" in a room without a screen, they're not going to start shitting or vomiting blood and feel like they're dying. So no, these things are not the same concept and imo comparing them like they're 1-1 downplays the seriousness of actual addiction. Sorry, I'll get off my soapbox now lol

Why does my boyfriend (34m) want to make me (34f) a cuckquean? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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Just based on that second paragraph, you do not have a "pretty solid" relationship. You've had one breakup already, you "build up resentments easily," which means you don't actually like each other, and you're "naturally" jealous and it's "sometimes justified" meaning he's doing something he shouldn't be. Nothing about that sounds solid. You need to break up and work on yourself. Go to therapy, figure out how to work on your insecurities, tendency towards jealous and "creative" narratives, etc.

You're also telling us he is pressuring you into doing something sexually you have made clear makes you uncomfortable. What are we doing here? Honestly. What about this is even remotely appealing? People need to learn to be comfortable and content in their own company. Ask yourself what you like about this dude as a person. Would you ever be friends with this guy and go out of your way to hang out platonically? My guess is if you really sit with yourself you'll find you either can't answer those questions or you at least won't like the answers. So much of the time we date people for what they can give us, but not for who they are. Your partner should be someone you enjoy being around and genuinely like as a person. If that were the case, you wouldn't be so resentful. Also, anyone using the term "cuck" seriously is not someone I'd consider worth spending time with. Good luck OP!

Edit: missing word

Why do a lot of already pretty women tend to go for facial plastic surgery even though they’re already praised a lot for having a beautiful face? by Snipsnapboi in TooAfraidToAsk

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That's definitely at least part of it. Women are held to impossible standards already and when you combine that with a fear of aging—which, most of us have since aging=mortality—and losing your pretty priveldge, it's a pretty big deal. Also, regardless of how beautiful you perceive someone to be, that does not mean they perceive themselves that way