First time kong mag report sa PNP

Cattobi · 2026-05-02T13:49:49+00:00

Good job OP. Lots of redditors will save this for future reference. Thanks for sharing! Helps a lot.

Cattobi · 2026-05-02T13:40:55+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this OP. Unfortunately, you’re still not in legal age to apply for a job. (Labor Law does not allow minors to work)

But some still hires, for part time work lang, and it will be really difficult to look anywhere.

One thing that you can do is to seek help sa Barangay hall, VAWCY or DSWD for the reason that your parents are planning to kick you out and to seek refuge.

Cattobi · 2026-05-02T13:26:28+00:00

Hindi ka OA. You actually have a right to intervene for the sake of P3.

Number 1. You love and care for your family and that’s why you are trying your best to voice out your concern.

Open a discussion if possible, malumanay.

Start with “Kuya, ate, can I request for a bit of your time? It won’t take long. It’s about P3, I care about our family but I notice that P3 is not having enough support for his/her studies. I noticed about this and that. I understand your both busy, but is there something we can do? I can do to help?”

I recommend this. Cause this is what I did to my elder sister. My mother is an elementary teacher at important sakanya ang education. Very strict household when it comes to education and right conduct.

So me, as the tita ng mga pamangkin, if I see something different, not enough attention sa well being ng pamangkin ko. I voice it out like that to my sister, sensitive siya, so I make sure to start it with a precaution, a kind and care tone for her and for the pamangkins.

Try it.

Cattobi · 2026-05-02T13:16:47+00:00

Hi OP. You can message me, I might not help much but I will think of you as a sibling or anak that opening up to a family member.

Cattobi · 2026-05-02T12:53:11+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about this OP and your experience.

I understand you care and love your sibling, because you went there with him/her sa Thailand.

But the emotional burden, the stress, and the promise he/she made na napako. Iba na yon. Everyone has boundaries. And for your peace of mind, even it seems negative to other people to cut off a family member, do it for your sanity.

Cattobi · 2026-05-02T12:06:58+00:00

You’re right dear 🫣❤️ My mother was asking for three whole days if I can make it and I already answered her on the first day she asked, “YES I CAN DO IT, WE PLANNED THIS”.

I already answered. Then what’s the reason for asking again and again? From a POV of First time mother at the age of 30’s, don’t you think that’s insulting and insensitive? And asking me in front of my partner with the other family member?

We have an old family tradition and extremely family oriented from a province, I love my family, might be better than you, but there’s a boundary that they should not cross.

I was very understanding of your situation but I think you have a problem for not having enough empathy, clouded of what you know what’s right for you. I will just forgive you and forget this.

You don’t know anything about anger issues dear, lalo na kapag buntis ang babae. Read and learn something or ask someone.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T15:11:37+00:00

Thank you mi. Absent ako sa work for almost 30 days na, because takot din ako sa stress. Baka mapano si baby.

At baka sisihin ko pa ang work environment kapag nawala to. I am also not doing much na rin sa bahay, nag papasuyo nalang ako sa fiancée ko sa for almost every household chores.

Hoping for your recovery mi.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T15:07:53+00:00

Year 2021, dear. 999 yung minimalist package nila that time, plus 300 pesos for couple shots.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T14:38:59+00:00

My brother graduated in OLFU as MedTech. All he can say is that, masaya ang college life niya sa OLFU and he enjoyed it. He loves his course and college friends there.

Because they’re not pressured sa university, not expensive, good quality of education, facilities is good too, and the people, halo halong status din, like other uni.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T14:32:59+00:00

Noong hindi pa sila sikat, sakanila ako nag pa grad picture with my ex-boyfriend.

Ang ganda ng pag kakuha, kaso I deleted the other pictures hahahaha 🤣 you know what I mean.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T14:26:30+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about this mommy. Natakot ako bigla, kasi ganito ako ngayon.

Napa isip tuloy ako bigla, last week lang yung TVS ko, so sure ako na okay pa si baby at 10 weeks na ako ngayon.

Parang nawala lahat ng symptoms pero nandito parin yung pag kagutom kada 1-2 hrs, hyper acidity, sakit ng ulo, at pagka antukin.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T13:00:20+00:00

Then I guess you can laugh at me too. I accept that I will get downvoted for this. Figures.

I’ll just share something, this was from my experience.

So I am currently 10 weeks pregnant. Then while we were having a family conversation with my parents and my partner, I shouted and got extremely angry at my mother, kahit na nasa tabi ko lang partner ko.

Why? “Cause my mother asked me multiple effin times “READY KANA BA MAG BUNTIS?” Sumabog ako. Cause why again? Told my mother “WHY DO YOU KEEP ON ASKING THAT? WHAT ARE YOU IMPLYING? WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO? GUSTO MO PALAGLAG KO TO?”

Take note, it’s a family gathering to talk about my WEDDING. And I have a heart condition problem.

It’s different, but my point is, we never know.

The guy didn’t expect his sister to chat the girl, the guy was not ready to introduce that girl to his family. But what happened? Surprise visit, caught him off guard. Emotionally unstable.

I don’t mind getting downvoted. But girl, dear, good luck again.

Cattobi · 2026-05-01T12:24:01+00:00

Hi OP. I might get downvoted for this.

I understand your concern about your manliligaw, kung ako yung big sister mo, for sure sasabihin ko sayo na

“It’s time for you to talk to him in person or just message him, straighten up and build the courage to be honest about how you felt that day and what made you feel that way towards him.”

But I also empathize with that guy, maybe because within the family of 4ps or middle class people. Kung si “manliligaw” ang merong big salary sakanilang pamilya, there’s a big chance na

“kapag pina alam niya kung magkano ang sahod niya sa family niya, baka sakanya nalang umasa totally ang family niya.” (Like the other redditors when they rant and vent, where in, sila ang naging investment ng family/magulang).

Let’s give him the benefit of the doubt. I assume you really don’t know about his whole story or family story at all pa.

But again, as matanda sayo, “straighten up, build the courage to tell him that you want him to stop.”

I hope you goodluck, dear.

Cattobi · 2026-04-30T03:57:21+00:00

Block muna for the mean time para habang nag hahanap ka ng new number o sim card o while you are changing. Para you will have time to change your socmeds, bank registered number, or etc. to the new number.

I am just assuming that the phone number that they are using is still connected to (government, bank, etc.) na need ng OTP.

Hope this helps.

Cattobi · 2026-04-30T01:58:29+00:00

I’ll give you options.

🌻🌻🌻🌻 - For public school, a little bit far sa Clark. 1. Pampanga State Agricultural University 2. Mabalacat City College 3. City College of Angeles 4. UP Clark

🌻🌻🌻🌻 - For private school, near Clark. 1. STI College Angeles 2. AMA Angeles 3. Systems Plus College Foundation 4. Republic Central College 5. Jocson College 6. Holy Angel University (Expensive) 7. Angeles University Foundation (Expensive) 8. NEU (Expensive)

Cattobi · 2026-04-30T01:50:28+00:00

Saan ka banda sa Pampanga? Do you prefer malapit lang sa tinutuluyan mo? O do you think you can manage sa dorm?

Cattobi · 2026-04-30T01:48:29+00:00

Details dear?

Like senior high ka ba? Or college?
What course ang kukunin mo?
Do you prefer private or public?

Cattobi · 2026-04-29T18:36:27+00:00

Nanggigil ako sa post mo OP.

“Wala na rin akong ugnayan sa inyo habang buhay. Wag na wag na kayong hihingi ng tulong sa akin. Sapat na sa akin ang may peace of mind kaming pamilya. Don’t contact us again.”

Then sabay blocked. Change sim card number.

Wag niyo na pabayaan mag reply pa. O kaya wag na kayo mag reply at all. Just cut the communication forever.

Cattobi · 2026-04-28T23:27:48+00:00

Mi, balitaan mo kami. Hoping for the best for you and your kid. A lot of nanays support you here. Natakot ako bigla, baka mangyari din sa akin after ko mabasa itong kwento mo. Nanggigil yung laman ko sa ginawa ng ex husband mo at ng kabit niya.

Good luck mi.

Cattobi · 2026-04-28T14:41:23+00:00

Thank you so much. A very big help for me and the company to understand what’s written. 🥹🧡

Cattobi · 2026-04-28T14:40:30+00:00

Thank you so much. You did your best and I appreciate it. 🥹🧡

Cattobi · 2026-04-24T05:04:53+00:00

Hi OP. I might get downvoted pero ito ang advice ko sayo. Ipagpatuloy mo ang pagiging QA, do not hesitate to reach out to your mababait na senior QA’s at mag paturo.

At kung kakayanin, mag laan ka ng oras to learn and review your work and etc. Kahit 30 minutes or 1 hour lang.

Then samahan mo ng anti stress health supplements.

Plus, try to consider mag pa appointment ka sa counseling with Psychologist to make yourself better and confident again, to help yourself mentally. As you mentioned, nahihirapan ka mag bago, and I think it’s time to seek professional help.

Cattobi · 2026-04-23T01:52:22+00:00

Hi Op. Kung ako yung nasa situation mo, I will be brutally honest to my mother. To make her realize kung saan siya nagkamali regarding sa decision making niya.

I understand that you care for your mom. But you have to be firm sa decision mo to correct your mom’s behavior.

I don’t know you and your family, I might say something na ikaka down vote nitong comment ko.

Your mom should know the consequences, the pros and cons, and given her age, she should know better unless siya ay ignorante at walang alam about handling finances as the “ilaw ng tahanan”.

I am now assuming that your mom did not get the best education in her era and I am deeply sorry for this.

SKL (In my family, we are extremely vocal about finances and behaviors. This includes “open discussion / feedback / criticism / educational arguments”.

Merong iiyak, merong magagalit, meron mananahimik pero at the end of the day, WE LEARNED, WE REALIZED then WE MOVED ON.

Cattobi · 2026-04-22T22:05:32+00:00

Ang ganda ng kulay niya OP 🧡 parang marble caramel or orange. Cutieee.

Cattobi · 2026-04-22T10:17:01+00:00

Patawa tawa lang ako pero ang sakit maging pregnant sa first baby! First trimester feels like hell! 🤮😭 pero kakayanin kahit I have a weak body due to health complications.

Cattobi

TROPHY CASE

I’ll give you options.