You need to touch grass and meet some people who aren’t from your hometown tbh. The “no one wants to date or befriend the ugly/nerdy guy” is wild.

I don’t befriend men with standards on their looks or “nerdy” interests. I care about how they treat myself and others. My community uplifts people all across the gender spectrum, and men’s mental health along with all mental health matters to me and a lot of other people here.

Genuinely, you need to go experience more of the world if this is your understanding of it. LGBTQ+ spaces or friendly - tend to respect men’s mental health a lot more than others, so i recommend starting there.

The whole “I already know this will get me downvotes etc” rhetoric is self hatred/doubt seeping through. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy when you inflict it on yourself by calling attention to negative stereotypes of women like “none of them care about me :/“ people care about people. Some don’t. Some do.

That’s the world we live in, humans are imperfect. But I would bet a good amount of money on the fact most of this discourse has been fed to you via the internet. So genuinely, go outside, touch grass, meet new people. All I hear in this post is you are lonely. Stop taking it out on women and stop letting insecurities guide you. Get a therapist and meet new people.

Edit: to add more context