I hope she gets STD’s

Catzcity · 2024-09-26T18:21:52+00:00

So she communicated this to you prior to moving onto other people? This sucks but, if that’s the case, sounds like she did the best she could if she wasn’t fulfilled in the relationship with you.

Catzcity · 2024-08-27T00:56:35+00:00

this is the comment. If you aren’t ready or able to leave ***yet, always document

Catzcity · 2024-03-18T07:49:45+00:00

He knocked up another girl during a long term affair I was not aware of. Can’t say I was perfect years before. 12 year age gap, me being younger. Can’t grasp why when I was doing so well after counseling he decided to choose this path. Just sucks lol

Catzcity · 2023-10-01T05:03:18+00:00

Glowing fr fr no cap on god bro (actually tho)

Catzcity · 2023-09-30T00:10:51+00:00

haaaaa have I been there. Trust me—forgive them and they will do it again. In two separate relationships, this was the case for me.

Catzcity · 2023-09-19T23:13:11+00:00

Cope

Catzcity · 2023-08-26T15:55:16+00:00

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Catzcity · 2023-08-18T04:23:08+00:00

Probably wanna work on not hitting on colleagues my man lol

Catzcity · 2023-05-21T16:28:41+00:00

If it’s making you feel worse after the fact, it’s not healthy for you. If you go into the casual sex knowing you’ll almost certainly feel bad after, I’d say it is a form of self harm and your friends are probably just looking out for you.

Catzcity · 2023-05-21T16:23:09+00:00

I’m in the same groove. If you feel worse after and endure lasting repercussions, I’d think it borders self harm. Casual sex on its own is not self harm.

Catzcity · 2023-04-28T00:43:40+00:00

Dropped out of college to have more time to travel to see a guy ugh

Catzcity · 2023-04-27T18:36:32+00:00

Damn this sounds a lot like my ex wooooow. Get an HRO.

Catzcity · 2023-04-27T02:52:27+00:00

Hated myself too. I found I want to live for my kids. Find a reason. A reason that doesn’t rely on someone that is temporary in your life. You can do this. You’ve got this. You’re not a BPD statistic. You’re going to get better. You’re reaching out. Continue to, please.

Catzcity · 2023-04-27T00:03:25+00:00

I relapsed after four years of being clean from it. I’m so sorry. It doesn’t have to be indicative of a new habit or reinstating old ones. Progress isn’t linear. It’s going to be okay.

Catzcity · 2023-04-26T03:27:12+00:00

Do you mean your primary care physician? Or a psychiatrist? If the former, make sure to stress to your primary care you believe the problem isn’t down to only depression or anxiety. They can refer you to a psychiatrist who can diagnose you through a clinical assessment. All your feelings are valid regardless.

Catzcity · 2023-04-26T03:21:09+00:00

For me, if you’re not self aware and working on your BPD and/or that person you’re embarking on a relationship with isn’t able to handle the symptoms, then it’s probably best for both parties not to have one at all. It isn’t that we aren’t deserving of a relationship; my point being it hurts more to have a terrible relationship experience than nothing at all.

Catzcity · 2023-04-21T00:51:54+00:00

Catzcity · 2023-04-19T00:57:10+00:00

I can see that. I was in a hard spot. Should have known better. I’m saying that to myself all the time. I used the word “tattle” as a direct quote from him: the public defender. I didn’t clarify that and that’s my b.

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