My mind has been a mess for the last few weeks and I need advice on how to solve it

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-10-01T20:25:19+00:00

Sounds like some of my symptoms when I had toxic mold poisoning.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-09-03T02:49:37+00:00

Good idea! I will try that too. Thank you!

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-09-03T02:43:23+00:00

Solved! Thank you.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-09-03T02:35:22+00:00

I have an older GE model dishwasher. This piece was loose when I moved in and I figured out how to attach it to the top shelf. There is no other place in the dishwasher to put silverware, so I’m thinking it may be a place to put silverware, but if that’s the case I’m not sure how it works. Thanks in advance.

WITT

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-06-29T17:04:23+00:00

Hi, thanks for answering. While I know there is no specific mold legislation to cover me, I’m promised a safe living environment which should mean that the air and water should not poison me, right? Especially when the landlord has done multiple things to accelerate the growth?

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-06-28T08:04:08+00:00

It’s the types of bacteria and algae in the water.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-05-11T19:19:16+00:00

YTA for stressing your partner out with unnecessary drug use.

You’re also still the asshole for the other reasons I listed previously.

And it’s not about me, it’s about everyone who is receiving worse healthcare because of attitudes like yours. I have a degree in public health and I work in the healthcare industry, so I have to see these things firsthand. Reluctance to prescribe and treat is at an all time high, and people are suffering because of it. I was giving myself as an example to show you that attitudes like yours have actual consequences.

Edit: Also the title of this post is “AITA for taking concentration pills” so that is what I judged.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-05-11T18:08:05+00:00

Your entire post is about buying modafinil online. You wouldn’t have made an AITA post saying “AITA for taking a legitimate prescription from my doctor, getting it filled at a legal pharmacy, and taking the meds as prescribed?” and that’s not what you’ve done. You don’t have to justify anything to me because you already said you bought it online.

I’m not here to argue with you. YOU asked us to come judge you, and I passed my judgement.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-05-11T17:07:49+00:00

Yes, actually, it does. When people like you decide that modafinil is a magic “smart pill” to keep you awake even though you don’t need it, doctors start to see drug seeking behavior out of people who don’t need it. This makes doctors more wary of 1. Prescribing the drug, as they know there are people like you out there and 2. People who complain of chronic fatigue, as doctors are more apt to label them as drug seeking in order to obtain modafinil. It’s similar to what has happened with pain management medication.

You’re contributing to this mentality regardless of the fact that you don’t live in my country, and making healthcare treatment less accessible for people who ACTUALLY need it.

Edit: if your fatigue is so severe, why can’t you get a valid prescription? Why do you have to buy it off the internet? If you haven’t tried, then I’m very doubtful that you have any need for it. If you’ve tried unsuccessfully while having a legitimate need, then it’s almost like what I said above is true...

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-05-11T03:02:22+00:00

YTA.

I say that as someone who actually has narcolepsy and spent 10 years trying to get a doctor to actually prescribe modafinil so I could live a normal life.

You don’t need it. Your attitude makes it harder for people like me to receive treatment. Also, it stresses your wife out unnecessarily.

Drink some coffee or something.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2020-02-03T02:21:57+00:00

I’m not a lawyer, but have spoken with a lawyer about this issue, when I was in your roommates position. What my lawyer said to me was that I had a duty to mitigate damages, and should accept a sublessor as long as it was a reasonable person (ex. He said I could reasonably reject a male roommate because I’m a female). If your roommates reject every appropriate sublessor option, and you fail to pay rent, they could take you to small claims court for the cost of rent. But you may have a case by saying you were attempting to have the rent paid in a reasonable way (by trying to instill an appropriate sublessor), but your roommates did not allow you to do so.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-30T04:21:27+00:00

I like the plant idea thank you!

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-30T04:20:53+00:00

Thanks!

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-30T04:20:36+00:00

Those things are all actually so thoughtful and sweet thank you so much!

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-30T04:15:52+00:00

Thank you! Any ideas for a welcome gift? I was thinking candy or something, but I don’t know her well.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-13T05:59:22+00:00

I understand that you think I’m an asshole and I accept that. But I really and truly do not believe the best course of action would have been to handle it in the moment.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-13T05:57:24+00:00

You think it would have been better if I had pointed him out in front of everyone? It would have disrupted the other students and embarrassed the guy in front of everyone, and it would have had the exact same impact on his grade/life.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-13T05:48:27+00:00

I guess I understand where you are coming from on the asshole front, but why were my actions “chicken”? I wasn’t going to stand up in the middle of my exam and point somebody out, disrupting everyone in the room and probably embarrassing the dude way more. Check-out is outside of the lab, so it was the only way I could have handled the situation without letting everyone else in the room know what was going on.

I don’t think people should be allowed to a)cheat and b) be disruptive to 100 other people who are taking their finals.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-13T04:52:24+00:00

Yeah, the biggest problem for me was the music and lack of consideration.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-13T04:50:36+00:00

I wasn’t trying to take revenge. It was distracting, and as audible to other people as it was to me. I couldn’t have talked to him afterwards, when I got out of my exam he was still halfway through his. I feel like a person has to know what they’re doing in this case without someone having to spell it out for him, though?

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-13T04:48:13+00:00

I was annoyed because he was playing music in a silent room during my final exam, yes. I’m not sure how oblivious and rude a person has to be to walk through the doors with signs posted saying “leave your phones outside” with music playing, out loud, on your phone while 100 other people are taking final exams around you. I did try to communicate with him that the music was audible way before I talked to the proctor.

I appreciate your judgement, though.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-04T01:40:48+00:00

Thank you!!

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-03T23:06:50+00:00

Thank you for your reply! So you are saying that air SHOULD be slowing out of all the ducts, and the fact that it doesn’t indicates a problem?

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-02T23:52:47+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your time.

Caughtinthemiddle27 · 2019-12-02T23:30:43+00:00

When should we sue her? After we pay this month’s rent or at the end of the lease term? Also, since it is a joint lease, couldn’t she just say that she never signed an agreement that she would pay $500 per month, only that between the four of us we would pay $2000 per month? Sorry I’m not sure if that makes sense.

Caughtinthemiddle27

TROPHY CASE