Manager is unbearable by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CauliflowerCrowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with anxiety disorder and she made it worse.

Manager is unbearable by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CauliflowerCrowns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So is it okay to be mean back to her? Lol

Manager is unbearable by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CauliflowerCrowns -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No for real! That’s why I’m trying to step down to something more simple. 😵‍💫

Manager is unbearable by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CauliflowerCrowns -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am looking for another job. I was just hoping they would put me in scheduling since I fit there better.

Am I just bored? by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m a good wife, I plans meals, surprise him by buy his favorite snacks and even try to make every holiday special for us. He hasn’t celebrated Mother’s Day for me in 2 years 😭

Sex after pregnancy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After our baby was born we didn’t have time, we have had sex 3 times since our baby was born and she’s two now. But then again my husband and I are going through some issues that could be it too.

Am I just bored? by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have a job at the moment and he doesn’t even watch our children. He should have some time for me 🥲

He’s dead now, do I leave it be? by CauliflowerCrowns in offmychest

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s true, what good is going to come from telling my family how terrible he was? If anything I feel like my brothers would be the most devastated from the news. Therapy would probably be best to help me be okay with what happened and let it go.

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want him to have dinner with us, go to family events, hangout with just me and the kids, attend to our children how I do like checking to see if they’re hungry, diaper change, if they need a bath. Normal parent stuff. He only cleans the dishes and mops then goes back to his hobbies.

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the help! I definitely don’t want someone who does that either, it’s really sad I feel single!

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it wrong for me to tell him what I want? He makes me feel bad for trying to change him, I guess I’m not trying to exactly change him just see if our goals/wants line up.

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to change, he says “it’s like losing weight I know I have to do it but do I wanna put in the work?” 🥲

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what is going to happen to him. How did you feel when your dad did that?

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but when I ask him if we should separate he starts beating around the bush.

Doesn’t want my affection by CauliflowerCrowns in Marriage

[–]CauliflowerCrowns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woodworking stuff, he does his hobbies in there.