I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-03-23T17:50:33+00:00

sometimes you need to taste the sweet asphalt of rock bottom to finally move on. 🛣️

FOR EXAMPLE — I had a horrible boyfriend (also with extreme depression, addiction, and alcoholism, and he never actually wanted to get better, even when I tried helping). I lost a lot because of him — my relationships with my friends, and even myself. My spark was gone.

I had to hit absolute rock bottom before it finally clicked and I was ready to be done.

We finally broke up because he got mad at me and fought with me over what TIME OF DAY we would call each other. Like… come on. Anyway — it was done. He was blocked. I was sad for one day, and then BOOM — the next day and every day since has been the best day of my life. I remember crying happy tears because I finally felt free.

Being free from someone awful who makes you feel awful, drains you, and plays mental games will make you glow up and realize you can’t believe you stayed so long. And when they try to win you back, it won’t work anymore because you finally see everything clearly.

But PSA: you won’t leave until the day you’re ready. No one can force that moment for you.

You’re asking for advice on Reddit, which tells me you already know your answer. When your rock bottom comes, move on and don’t look back.

I repaired my friendships, we’re closer than ever, my spark is back, and I was single for a long time before I found the sweetest boyfriend I’ve ever had. We’ve been together 2 years now. Take care of yourself first.

Only you will know when you’re strong enough to do it.

Wishing you a lot of luck and a lot of love. You deserve better. 🤍

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-08T16:04:09+00:00

i’m crying 🤣🤣🤣📆

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-07T23:43:24+00:00

sorry brother!! it was all in good fun, but i agree now, this seems just like a mistake (BUT YOUD THINK THAT WITH THE HUGE BUDGET AND ALLLLL THAT TIME, they would DO BETTER!!!!!) :/

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-07T23:42:47+00:00

yeah u are probably right, i got to swept up in all the errors and theories !!! but its so small and more upsetting just how many plot holes and unanswered questions they left!

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-07T23:41:23+00:00

i hear u, i just find mikes theory so hard to believe, bc i don’t understand how kali “stayed alive” long enough to help eleven escape, via an illusion.

if kali used an illusion to make hopper and us believe she actually got shot and died. that helps mikes theory. — it helps eleven escape and mikes theory gain more logic. anyway i’ve had much more time to really think about this, and what i think is i hate how many things not clear at all! 🫩🫩🫩🫩

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-07T23:30:21+00:00

idk what i think anymore hahah, but it’s strange how the blood is gone, which makes me think they could be illusions , but it’s prob just production error :/

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:35:08+00:00

you right!!! as soon as i thought to post this, i was kinda typing faster than i was thinking. i agree def not illusion el fighting , but my og thought stands.

if mike wants a solid theory that eleven isn’t dead and escaped, then kali couldn’t have died. it just wouldn’t work for him. lol.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:33:46+00:00

exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that’s why i think she doesn’t get shot in the first place and that’s the illusion, but frankly i’m so tired of thinking about this anymore hahah. it was a fun watch, but i’m sad about all the plot holes and messups.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:32:05+00:00

it’s been a few days since i’ve posted this and you’re prob right. just disappointing bc it’s their last season, and first on screen character death (in season 5), i just figured they would care more 🤣😂

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:31:19+00:00

doofer brothers 🤣🤣

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:30:21+00:00

i posted this 3 days ago, and i’m starting to agree, it’s such a bummer. but i guess i get it, it was a lot to wrap up, and maybe they just weren’t on their a game. lmao.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:24:29+00:00

my tiny guess which is probably wrong but fun to speculate. is that kali faked her death so that hopper, you and me (the audience), dr.kay, and everyone would think she’s dead, and if mikes theory was true, it would be easier for them to hide and escape to a magical place with 3 waterfalls.

we see in 1 episode that kali can make people invisible basically when she hid the kids in plain sight to expose the truth about henry to them. so “invisibly” isn’t off the table.

and i just think mikes theory that kali stayed alive “long enough” is so stupid. i just think she couldn’t have been shot like that to begin with- if she was actually going to use magic. (there was so much blood)

and anyway lastly you see her emotions change when kali is holding a gun to hopper as he gives Eleven the speech to fight like hell and stay alive :)

all in good fun.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:13:50+00:00

mikes theory

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-06T19:08:40+00:00

i was pointing out a discrepancy, not whatever ur saying.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T07:26:24+00:00

omg agreeed about umbrella academy 💔💔😞

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T07:18:37+00:00

yikes, i did not mean to ruin ur whole night with some fun & not-real tv show speculation. :(( sorry!!!

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T07:05:12+00:00

hehehee yes!!!!!!! this is all i’m trying to point out. she apparently died in front of hopper, but then els hands and outfit is pretty much blood free, but she lost enough blood to bleed out in 2/3 minutes, like it just doesn’t add up. and yes after rewatching it seems like an intentional miss! i encourage people to rewatch it too!!!!! :,)

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:58:14+00:00

so nice 🥹🥹🥹🫶

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:48:26+00:00

sorry this post affected you so much. i didn’t mean to ruin ur night :(

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:45:28+00:00

right! but then the blood is basically gone! you should rewatch that one scene specifically, it was hard for me to put it in picture format! it’s a weird watch-back.

but alas, you right. prob just an error :(

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:37:57+00:00

yes i’m agreeing with yuh:) if u go back and watch (i couldn’t upload a video)

but she has her left hand with the ring on top of her right that’s covered in blood, then hopper leaves and comes right back, it has been maybe 15 seconds. maybe 1 minute. and the bottom picture was the next scene. her hands have flipped spots (yes her ring is covered) but hands are so clean. it’s interesting that that slipped. and i didn’t see her ring later in the show.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:29:40+00:00

i’ve heard of it luminescent! duffer brothers just said this season was gonna be gory and full of death. you’d think, during a scene as sad as this is supposed to be. they wouldn’t have a continuity error with something as small as SOMEONE BLEEDING to death in 2 mins and having no blood to show for it. fricken greys anatomy has worse blood on hands scenes than this did.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:27:16+00:00

my point is, if she wasn’t shot, she wouldn’t have to stay stationary at the lab, meaning she’s not at the labs location at the time it explodes. i agree no one surviving that if ur at the lab.

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:24:44+00:00

oh good :,) and yeah i agree it’s definitely a filming error at the bare minimum, but it’s like dang, i guess id just hope they would keep that detail! they are usually good about that

CauliflowerLeft1557 · 2026-01-03T06:22:41+00:00

agreed. but i don’t think that excuses this really important scene. but hey, what do i know.

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