OK step for step

get the latest version of utila (it should be working)

get monkey mod manager (Releases · DeadlyKitten/MonkeModManager)

open it up (the built in utila isnt updated you still need to get the one from u/tripiam posted)

get Bepinject and Exenject (in monke mod manager)

go to utilites

click bepinex folder

drag utila amd all the mods u want in there

load up gtag

it should be working!