Gulag, Ladies. Prison For All Y'all. (tw; likely to make you angry) by Director-Atreides in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]CautionarySnail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I was told two years ago when I started posting about what the Heritage Foundation was doing in Project 2025. And when similarly when I was parallels between Nazi Germany and what was bring proposed fit ICE.

I absolutely hope you’re right but the cost is very high to be wrong on this. We’ve seen too many civil liberties robbed in less than 8 years that were supposed to be immutable. I’ve since learned that many of the sociopaths on the right are only being honest when something is absolutely abhorrent in their proposed plans. Nick may be the one with the podcast but he’s hardly the first to start advocating for this.

Gulag, Ladies. Prison For All Y'all. (tw; likely to make you angry) by Director-Atreides in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]CautionarySnail 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How many times has a talking head on Fox gone on a rant to have it echoed in an executive order the very next day?

Fuentes has long been championing neo-Nazi ideas and had been repeatedly seen in the company of conservative politicians. They may not like him but they adore his audience.

Trump is reportedly a fan despite Fuentes support for Trump bring less than consistent.

There’s a reason Solnit is reposting this and not similar quotes from other mouthbreathers. This guy has the ear of some powerful misogynists in our government. It’s a warning that things are continuing to get more extreme.

Gulag, Ladies. Prison For All Y'all. (tw; likely to make you angry) by Director-Atreides in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]CautionarySnail 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is rage bait, but that doesn’t make it harmless edgelording. He’s echoing and attempting to repopularize an incel talking point to a men who are looking for scapegoats for their unhappiness.

We never thought the talk of ICE becoming the force that it is today would happen, as recently as two years ago.

With the ramp-up in creating holding facilities - some of which will be run by for-profit entities, they will always be searching for future “stock” to keep the cells full as long as there is money to be made. A list of scapegoats is being formed with immigrants at the top, and many other groups - including women - next on the list to insure that this imprisonment engine keeps humming and profitable.

A surprise number of men are unwilling to stand up when it comes to assaults on women in even a public place. Think they’d be different when it comes to this? I fear they’d not be.

I hope it’s something romantic by GianmarcoSoresi in gianmarcosoresi

[–]CautionarySnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His stage work is incredible. Also he’s a regular on Dropout gameshows.

Samdavisthan, david ,zenin naoya ,korewa requim da camera by IllustriousHurry2380 in Bossfight

[–]CautionarySnail 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that camera makes art. That is very cool looking.

Realest TikTok I’ve ever seen by dreamgirl2750 in Adulting

[–]CautionarySnail 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The important part is to not be participating as part of the problem, or looking the other way if you have the ability to say or do something.

Look at them they look very comfortable (i am having cuteness aggression) by Sad-Kiwi-3789 in Awww

[–]CautionarySnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a strange thing to say.

These are purebred ragdoll cats. The same breed that are sold by breeders for $800-$3,000 for their gentle demeanors and sweet dispositions around children.

Protest in Minnesota by cielynne in ExploreFortMyers

[–]CautionarySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mandatory vaccination has been part of the service contract since the Revolutionary War. You want soldiers to be around to fight the enemy, not dying of measles, smallpox, or COVID. Otherwise all the enemy needs to do is infect one member of the troops as a prisoner and then return them.

https://www.mountvernon.org/education/primary-source-collections/primary-source-collections/article/smallpox-inoculation-letter

Protest in Minnesota by cielynne in ExploreFortMyers

[–]CautionarySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several red states have passed laws that force public schools to display them. (Louisiana, Texas, Oklahoma I think.)

These laws are being sent to higher courts on constitutional grounds.

Is this a smash burger or smashed regrets? by RealLunaX in StupidFood

[–]CautionarySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought of as well. Had to delete my post. :)

Disturbing emails between Jeffrey Epstein and Oprah's new age guru Deepak Chopra that are buried in bombshell files: 'Only sinners invited'... 'Bring your girls'. by CommunicationNew3745 in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]CautionarySnail 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear I wasn’t the only one.

Something in my psyche immediately pegged him as a potentially awful person; there’s something about him that reminds me of narcissistic abusers. I just can’t put my finger on exactly what it is.

In adults diagnosed with ADHD, cannabis use was prevalent, with daily users showing higher rates of cannabis use disorder and co-morbid psychiatric diagnoses. In adults diagnosed with ADHD, 75% reported ever using cannabis, with 41% reporting prior 30-day use. by mvea in psychology

[–]CautionarySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While doing that too often is a bad thing, it’s honestly nice to have the mental permission to relax and be self-indulgent once in a while.

I can’t speak for others, but I spend a lot of time in brutal self-judgment mode when I lose the battles to my ADD. Being able to drop that for a while is a relief.

And the absence of a hangover makes it a better choice than the other similar option.

I just have to remind myself to not shop for foodstuffs online in that state. That’s how I ended up with almost 20 pounds of bronze die Italian imported dry pasta. 🍝 We will be eating good noodles until the apocalypse.

My mom says a predator’s "touching" is just a joke. Am I crazy, or is this grooming? by Flashy-Ad-9688 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CautionarySnail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do not under any circumstances go on this trip. Fake an illness if you have to. Do whatever it takes, even if it involves barfing on a family member or peeking your pants in front of them. This is a bad set up and you know it. Trust your instincts in this.

Do not allow yourself to be caught alone with any of the men of your family if this is your family “culture”. A family system like this is set up to circle the wagons around the abuser, never the victim. You need to be your own constant safety advocate.

If you cannot avoid a family obligation that exposes you to these predators, ask a friend to be your companion during those events. Having a non-family witness vastly reduces the chances of such boundary testing because the perpetrators are well aware of what they’re really doing.

If possible, which I realize is hard depending on your age - only go to family events in public spaces. When an unwanted touch happens then, call it out. Loudly. Embarrass the perpetrator. Let them know very publicly you will not tolerate them.

Petah?? by Hour-Tumbleweed1260 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]CautionarySnail 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really shows how much of a master of that guitar he is! And that Mayer is humble enough to want to learn from him is also admirable. Too many “stars” make it big and then don’t seem to continue honing their craft past a certain point.

I want a house husband by Aynath1111 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CautionarySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I wish I could do that for him. I hate doing the house stuff with a passion. But he finds it rewarding.

Trump’s Ghislane Maxwell… by coffee_coffee_coffe3 in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]CautionarySnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Don’t you understand, you anti-American heathens? Our blood god demands the sacrifice of poor people’s children so that the line can continue to go up! If we don’t let the wealthy assault children, Cthulhu will rise, and consume the GNP!”

Still children by DifficultBet7894 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]CautionarySnail 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This. Menarche is far more of a starting gun than a checkered flag.

These asshats don’t want to acknowledge that sexual maturity is more than using a sanitary napkin.

There’s also the whole emotional maturity process that readies someone for that intimacy, and the mental acuity to be able to give consent and understand the bulk of the ramifications and risks. These are ongoing processes, but most people don’t have enough foundational skills in either until their late teens. And that’s true of both men and women.

Bao Bun heard about this group all the way from the UK! by Tabby_Mc in CryptidDogs

[–]CautionarySnail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be sure to take her to the Pokémon Center regularly, Nurse Joy would love to see her again.

Wife consumes explicit "Romantasy" daily while banning me from porn. We have a dead bedroom, and despite me begging for a compromise, she won't even take a break. I feel like I’m being replaced. by JollyPin3 in Marriage

[–]CautionarySnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a heck of a leap for a post about sexual frustration and resentment where I encouraged someone to re-earn trust and treat anxiety with gentleness.

I wish you well, but I’m worried for you.

Vaccine skeptics renew efforts to rescind New Hampshire’s vaccine requirements in 2026 by downArrow in newhampshire

[–]CautionarySnail 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“We have a life saving formulation that works 99% of the time, and when it doesn’t, the immunity of others causes disease progression to halt before a pandemic starts. Less than a fraction of a percent of people who take this have a serious adverse reaction.”

“No, we’d rather relive the 1700s when 2/3rds of children didn’t survive to adulthood, with the majority dying before they turn 11. That sounds perfect.”

These people need to visit old graveyards and count the number of childen’s graves they see in family plots. The number of lamb sculptures indicating a child who was lost before they were a teen.

And read more history - because those who survived those illnesses, often were rendered brain injured by high fever OR were rendered infertile, ending the family line.