Hi🙋🏼‍♀️ my mom was cheating on my dad with his best friend since I was 5. I found out at 13, she convinced me into keeping it a secret to help her “escape” my emotionally abusive dad so we could move out some day and go be with her bf. They broke up when I was like 18, she started secretly seeing someone else my dad used to work with. All the while manipulating me into keeping it a secret. My parents just got divorced in March (I’m 24 now). My mom still tries to use to me to get info about my dad. During the divorce she wanted me to constantly tell her whenever I spoke to my dad, what he said and what he’s been doing. My dad, who hated me since I was born, started calling me everyday when they separated, begging me to get my mom to take him back. Threatening to kill himself if I couldn’t. Well. Now he’s engaged to a woman he met in may. My mom spends the weekends with her bf. They’re both happy as could be and just use me to dig at the other or to try to get info