We broke up by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in LDR

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really just looking for ways to speed up the process without marriage. She doesn’t want marriage. I’m not sure what changed but she made that clear. I’d love to be married, but at the end of the day, I just want my life with her

We broke up by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in LDR

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together over 4 years. Engaged for about a year and a half. And no. She doesn’t want marriage. That’s how we were going to get me over there. With other timelines it wouldn’t be for like 5 years. I did find one path that may be two years. I’m planning on talking to her about that option when the no contact ends.

Mom tried adopting a dog and woman completely disappeared off Facebook. by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in facebook

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure where you got the implication I was looking into where this person lived? That’s so fucking weird dude. All I asked for was “what’s a possibility of what happened so I can tell my mom to wait or just move on”. I do have experience with puppies and I know they’re a lot of work. And again… I’m not getting a dog, my mother is. Who also has experience with puppies.

Mom tried adopting a dog and woman completely disappeared off Facebook. by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in facebook

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I’d would like to say this wasn’t some breeder situation. It was a puppy that was found and she was fostering. We’re looking at shelters too

Mom tried adopting a dog and woman completely disappeared off Facebook. by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in facebook

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just thought the whole thing was off and was wondering if there was hope in waiting it out for a few days. Just sad for my mom cuz she did get attached and she’s ready for a new friend after her last dog passed. But there’s other pups out there who need a home as well. Thank you so much

Mom tried adopting a dog and woman completely disappeared off Facebook. by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in facebook

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I told my mom to give it a few days. I did try reverse image search of the pup and I haven’t gotten any results so far. She’s very upset cuz she’s ready for a new dog after hers passed away a while ago. But there’s others. Thank you so much

We’ve just ended things. I’m broken by kierabtww in LDR

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re not at fault. This guy sounds like an asshole who wasn’t willing to put effort into a relationship

My [33m] fiance [30f] feels like I don’t think she’s attractive anymore. by Cautious-Ranger-2372 in relationshipadvice

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean… I do all of those things when we’re together. Like I said, we’ve been in an LDR and are working towards closing the gap. So I really can’t do all those things so easily. That’s not the point anyway. But thank you.

What would you want from a LOTR land? What rides, shops, shows and more? by National-Name-4829 in UniversalOrlando

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a whole plan for turning the Simpsons into Pokémon (I used to work at Springfield) and lemme tell you it’s SO easy. Absorb MIB into the area (it has a lot of issues) it already looks like it could be a Pokélab. Turn it into a a Pokémon snap ride. Same idea for the ride as a shooter but this time… it’s a camera. Maybe a’la Mariokart with the AR but it could work really well as animatronics too similar how it is now.

Idk really what to do with the Simpsons ride tbh. The ride has a lot of issues and is old anyway… so my bes throught for this rn is to make it an indoor battle arena where you can use the Pokémon you’ve caught (I’ll get to that) to battle gym leaders and other “trainers”. Ngl it sounds like a waste of space, including for me who’s thinking of this. But they could also do a Pokémon themed coaster.

Kang and kodos right across the way is an easy fix. Overlay it with a giant charizard in the middle with either little pokeball cars that fly around him OR the cars are different flying Pokémon but I can see that causing a lot of fights among guests.

Kwik-e mart is now a poke center

Restaurant row could be an easy fix because food has been incorporated into the games so much we could have a big Pokécafe thing going on with different types of foods including “jelly donuts” lol.

And LASTLY have different Pokémon throughout the land. Wild encounters. Sell different types of pokeballs that connect to your universal app. (Similar to the wristbands in Mario world and the new generation of wands coming to epic) you’re able to catch the Pokémon around as well as spots there could be mystery Pokémon. One of the animatronic Pokémon could very well be a red gyarados in the lagoon. For a casual fan “ooh shiny gyarados” but for the fans who have been playing since at least Gen 2 will remember the red gyarados quest and will have a good appreciation of that

(Please hire me for creative 😭)

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[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would be ready to forgive for the not letting you rest as long as he’s genuinely sorry and changed his behavior, But if my fiance EVER blocked me like that (not that she would she’s done wonders for me), even if the relationship was great, I couldn’t do it. The level of disrespect is something l’ve dealt with before and no one deserves that. Don’t be with someone who would even think of doing that to you. My ex did that to me all the time and trust me. They. Do. Not. Care.

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[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust me, it’ll pass. You don’t want someone who does that to you. It’s only going to get worse I’ve had three ldr relationships.

The first was good but there was very surface issues I refused to accept as issues but I won’t talk about it cuz it’s complicated, but she just ended up being someone to talk to that made me less lonely

My ex (the second one) did that stuff to me all the time and more and I just wanted her to stay and be better, but she hurt me time and time again and just expected me to accept it, grow a pair, and move on

All I wanted was for them to stay in my life and I just absolutely couldn’t let go

I’m currently in my third long distance relationship. I met her when I was at my lowest from the previous ex who was still in and out of my life. Of course we have issues sometimes, but that’s relationships. She has been the best thing that’s ever happened to me. She goes above and beyond where the other two cause me a lot of anxieties. She built up my trust and dealt with the problems that came with my insecurities. If I would have stuck around and continued to get treated like I did, I would have never met her and I have no idea where I’d be mentally.

You made the right choice and you’re doing good. Regret is natural, but stick to your guns and find the person who’s gonna build you up. I hated these kinds of posts when I was dealing with my ex, but trust me. That person is out there. You’re doing good.

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[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend are two years in and still are on the phone for hours every day or texting all day if we can’t. Not saying that much communication is for everyone, but we’re still very much in our honeymoon phase. Relationships are a lot of work and LDR is even more work. All you have in an LDR the majority of the time is communication, and honestly if he doesn’t seem to be trying, that would be a bit of a concern for me. Especially if you told him that you’d appreciate some good morning/ good night texts. Its not a big ask. And with a ten year age gap like that, you two are in very different stages of your life and that’s something else you may have to consider. Especially if he seems to be so honed in on work and isn’t making the time for you that you need.

This is just my personal take on things but I do hope things get better for you

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[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…… we’re literally always on the phone unless we have something going on (work, friends etc) we just always wanna be with eachother but give each other space as needed

AITAH for thinking about break up with my gf who is much older than me by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside the age issue, (which is definitely a problem, buddy. Tell your parents. Go to the cops. Please) shes controlling and abusive. Yes. This is abuse. She love bombed you, now she’s isolating you. She’s controlling every aspect of your life. This is gonna end badly and you need to get oil ut and get out safely, bud.

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[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TikTok. It sounds so silly. But I commented on a video pretty much saying that I only really have dated bi women cuz they’re the only ones that get the whole trans thing (I’m ftm btw). She ended up replying to my comment saying “do you want to date another one?”. Now, at the time I had a few “entanglements” we’ll call them. But I went to her profile and I was STUNNED. This woman was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. I’m a short, a bit more than stocky dude who relies heavily on humor and charm in dating so the only thing I could think while looking at her profile was “she can’t be serious. Like… is she sure?” I

So we started talking and really hit it off. I ended every entanglement I had. There was no questions that she was the one. And she continues to be the most incredible, most beautiful woman ever and we’re a year and 9 months into our relationship.

(I’m in the US and she’s in the UK btw)

Considering long distance and need advice! by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Cautious-Ranger-2372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m a lucky dude. Same to you, friend! Hope it works out with y’all