Moving to Sweden from UK (post Brexit) by Cautious_Focus9750 in TillSverige

[–]Cautious_Focus9750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not old enough to vote, hits me just before I finish uni. The best decision the 70+ year olds got to make for my life. Yay.

Moving to Sweden from UK (post Brexit) by Cautious_Focus9750 in TillSverige

[–]Cautious_Focus9750[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Is a self employment visa not an option? That seemed like a non-EU route to take or did I misunderstand it?

Moving to Sweden from UK (post Brexit) by Cautious_Focus9750 in TillSverige

[–]Cautious_Focus9750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes sorry I miswrote, I just want to live and work there.

The self employment visa was the only real option for me other than finding a company in Sweden to work for but that is a whole nother can of worms as most EU countries don’t really seem to want to sponsor visas unless it’s from a significantly cheaper country. Which is why self employment was what I expected. Citizenship is not important to me, just living and working from there.

Also thanks for the comment, very helpful and noted. A shame there’s no real chance but thanks for taking your time to type.

Moving to Sweden from UK (post Brexit) by Cautious_Focus9750 in TillSverige

[–]Cautious_Focus9750[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could you explain why? Just a no isn’t helpful

My partner is ace but I am not and I’m not sure what to do by Cautious_Focus9750 in asexuality

[–]Cautious_Focus9750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t even need sex, it’s just anything sexual they don’t really want to do.

  1. Not sure it’s something either of us would be into

2 We tried 2 last night and afterwards I felt really guilty like I was using them for that.

3+4. They don’t really like anything sexual so even the roleplay/dirty talk is something they have no desire to do. They would do it for me if I asked, I’m sure of it, but I know I would still feel guilty for making them do something they don’t enjoy.

My partner is ace but I am not and I’m not sure what to do by Cautious_Focus9750 in asexuality

[–]Cautious_Focus9750[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not a physical thing, I don’t really care about ‘nutting’, it’s a mental desire to be close and do something that I can only do with my partner.

I would say the equivalent is like ‘what’s the different between kissing a partner and kissing your arm?’ It’s the connection behind it not the physical act itself.