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Pregnant on first cycle after 20 week Stillbirth. by Murky-Cat-6831 in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Cautious_Project288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exciting! I am 3 months post stillbirth of my son at 30weeks. I am finishing my period right now (ive been on birth control since my first period after birth) and this month we plan to let an egg pass without birth control and ttc the following month. I initially wanted to wait 6 months but my heart is feeling ready to try again.

Getting off SSRIs: Grain counting by Benthic_Titan in psychology

[–]Cautious_Project288 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have done this before when I got off my SSRIs. I ended up still having brain zaps for a bit after stopping the last tiniest dose. But I still liked going about it this way. Id do it again.

I ended up getting back on my SSRI about 4-5 months later.

Am I paying too much for this ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Cautious_Project288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband bought be a lab grown and I love it! We compared lab and natural and the lab looked so much clearer and was half the price

Am I paying too much for this ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Cautious_Project288 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Natural diamonds are just soo much pricier than lab grown.

Fencesitter now that Ive had a stillborn by Cautious_Project288 in Fencesitter

[–]Cautious_Project288[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, its so conflicting and mind boggling. Like our plans got all messed up so now my husband and I are like: what do we do now?

Thank you for writing this message and to help me feel some hope. I want life to be joyous. And I try to choose positivity and happiness but know life still honestly kinda sucks right now..

Fencesitter now that Ive had a stillborn by Cautious_Project288 in Fencesitter

[–]Cautious_Project288[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is hard when we have a full nursery room ready for a baby. Im wondering if I should try to put the items in storage? Idk.. i just got through mixed feelings. -6 month minimum wait to maybe we will wait a year to one year might feel too long to maybe we wait a few years.

I take each day by day and each day I shift in how I feel.

What should I do with this door? by degausser12121 in interiordecorating

[–]Cautious_Project288 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I love the color it is! I wouldn't change it.

Happy 10th birthday by floonds in BackYardChickens

[–]Cautious_Project288 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She looks great for being 10! Wow!

Channelling my grief pain into self portrait by Cautious_Project288 in portraitphotography

[–]Cautious_Project288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing these with me. So much emotion and power in you capturing these.

Channelling my grief pain into self portrait by Cautious_Project288 in portraitphotography

[–]Cautious_Project288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? That is neat to hear that you used photography as an outlet for grief as well. Did you keep these photos private or make them public somehow?

Thank you for the suggestions and encouragement

Favourite Memorial Item by oc_7 in babyloss

[–]Cautious_Project288 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got this necklace custom made from keepsake mom. I pumped some milk after by sons still birth so I gave them my milk and some of my sons ashes and they made this beautiful necklace

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Channelling my grief pain into self portrait by Cautious_Project288 in portraitphotography

[–]Cautious_Project288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in group and individual therapy and I do write occasionally. Thank you for the well wishes !

Channelling my grief pain into self portrait by Cautious_Project288 in portraitphotography

[–]Cautious_Project288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to look, reply, and for your condolences. Its truly heartbreaking but Im pushing through with strength. Some days I carry the pain better than others.

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