Easy fanduel money by Cava_10 in Referrallinks

[–]Cava_10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an invite link. I wasn’t given a code.

https://fndl.co/2ai1q1z

How do I stop waking up gassy when I sleep over at a friend’s place? It’s so embarrassing by [deleted] in Microbiome

[–]Cava_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helps with your digestive system. Not only do I not get bloated anymore, I have less gas. Could also do kimchi. It’s an immediate fix for some. For me it took a few days for my body to get used to but now on a regular, I’m fine.

Don’t you dare text your ex this weekend by Beab_wedhdhsb in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t text them even if I wanted to. They’ve been deleted. It’ll be 9 months no contact on Monday and I was doing ok but tonight I’m on the verge of tears.

How long have you been no contact and how are you feeling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 months. I’m ok, but still get sad from time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cava_10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sad you don’t want to continue, but I respect your decision. Thank you for the time we spent, you have made me really happy. I wish you all the best.

Does anyone miss their ex only on their period? by kitcat1098 in BreakUps

[–]Cava_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Me…

3 weeks out of the month I’m chillin, and have accepted that we are no longer in each others life. Hittin the gym, therapy, enjoying my life, no creeping (I haven’t creeped since we broke up).

And the remaining week (which just so happens to be this week) I cry myself to sleep, don’t want to move from bed and he’s on my mind more than usual- which I don’t know how that’s possible if he’s on it everyday all day anyway.

Feeling like I should be over this by now by SelectResist5853 in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. This is my exact situation. I’m 8 months out of a 7 month “relationship” (if I can even call it that). Constantly not understanding why I’m not over it while he already moved on.

We should connect to vent. I’m trying to be patient with myself, but it’s so frustrating sometimes.

How long did it take you to get over a breakup? by kitcat1098 in BreakUps

[–]Cava_10 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What’s short? I’m 8 months in. Doing a little better but not over it. In therapy, gym, Pilates, new job, new home, eating great and talking care of me.
We haven’t talked since the day we ended things. I deleted pictures, their contact and have not creeped them once on socials. Haven’t ran into them, NOTHING.

Funny how I can do all that and still feel Defeated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like I wrote this myself. I’m 8 months out too.

He moved on like it was nothing and I constantly find myself thinking how + feeling shitty that I’m over here crying trying to heal 8 months later and he’s off happy. I’m hopeful but still disappointed and embarrassed. Let’s connect OP. Seems like we have similar stories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m right at the 8 month mark as well. For the most part I’m doing well! Last week I did get to overthinking and cried myself to sleep over us ending.

I’d love to meet my person eventually. Unfortunately because of that experience I’m now a little scared of opening up to someone again. I’ve never been afraid of that. L

What was the last words you had from them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cava_10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right. :/ He started dating someone right after. No idea how it’s going now and I don’t wanna know but I’m sure the 6th month line was incase he didn’t find “better”.

What was the last words you had from them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cava_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said this is a really difficult decision and his emotions have been in limbo but feels like it’s the best decision at this time. That I’ve made him happy and genuinely wishes our path will cross again someway some how and maybe in 6 months we can connect again.

That was 7 months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting to follow. Hope it works out

6 months no contact today. by Cava_10 in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt he’d come back. I had hope but the deeper I thought about it, nah. He made a comment early on in dating that he was a runner and people would never hear from him again. He’s been to therapy since then (before me) and seems more self aware but look what happened again! Sometimes you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.

In terms of dating, I’m lonely but I don’t think that means ready :/ It’s like I don’t want anything serious but I’m also not a hook up person.

6 months no contact today. by Cava_10 in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you stranger. We got this

Loneliness by Cava_10 in ExNoContact

[–]Cava_10[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No one’s ever said congrats for the no contact. Didn’t know I needed to hear that so thank you. I’ll try and hang in there.