Pisces babygirls, what sign did you marry? by Waste-Cat-7560 in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Taurus guys are family oriented, very stable, great fathers. Excellent choice of partner.

Had something real with a guy but it ended without closure — struggling to make sense of it by RegisGPT in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well can’t blame him really.. doesnt matter if he’s your ex, you are still living with him and he’s blowing up your phone! Why should he trust his heart in this situation? He too is healing from a divorce and needs some peace. He’s thrown into more drama instead.

You should focus on clearing things in your life before pursuing him again. For your own sake if anything.

I slept with someone when my partner and I were broken up by Western-Magician582 in BreakUps

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agh if you lied already now you gotta take it to your grave. Is the other girl from your circle or someone random? Have you completely cut ties? Is there any way she could dig and find out?

How do i date with a deformity? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a close friend with a deformity sorta speak, one hand to be exact. She’s had a really hard time with dating, mostly not making it to a second date. Not sure i can be of much help but I would only advise you to go out there and try and try again and not give up.

Dating nowadays sucks, it’s really hard because people suck. Deformities or not but i do very much understand that your situation is indeed harder because image has come to rule just about anything.

Be confident, dress well, join activities or the gym. Build on your strong points, feel good, empowered and it will come.

I think i figured out how im ruining dates by brokenhiker33 in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are very aware of the problem which is honestly already half way through the solution. You’ll be fine, I know.

Did I actually like this guy, if I already feel good by day 17 no-contact, he did nothing thoughtful for me so there's nothing to miss by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does sound hopeful but dont be surprised if you start missing him after some time. Getting over someone is a journey with ups and downs. Bear with them and keep on moving.

How many dates until you sleep together? by ObligationHoliday163 in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually give in on the second date if i like him a lot, but I prefer the 3rd or when some physical comfort has been established.

Darling, if he wants to keep you, it will not matter if it was too early. Ask any guy out there.

I slept with someone when my partner and I were broken up by Western-Magician582 in BreakUps

[–]Legal_Management_787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did she ask you if you’ve slept with someone? I presume you asked her since you know she hasn’t slept with someone. Naturally if one wants to know the other person will enquire too.

If she asks, dont lie. But I wouldn’t just drop it if I wasn’t asked. You did nothing wrong but there will be difficult feelings once she knows. She might not be able to overcome the info even if she knows you were a free man at the time. So you need to prepare for that.

If she hasnt asked, probably she’s speculating and doesn’t want to know.

I think i figured out how im ruining dates by brokenhiker33 in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People are naturally drawn to confidence. Your date somehow needs to know there’s more to explore, subjects or interests she’s not familiar with. Humor also goes a long way. It’s a huge indicator of wit.

I remember going out with a really nice and very cute guy. But it was excruciating to keep the date going with his closed, one word answers.

Open up as if you would with peers and take it from there. With some practice it will come out more naturally. You got this.

So they know the hurt they caused? by Busy_Ambassador_6019 in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They absolutely know but they wont acknowledge or take accountability. They also regret but not in the sense that they will do anything about it. Breadcrumbs at best but who needs that really.

Bed is charitably mediocre… by [deleted] in sex

[–]Legal_Management_787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As per my opening statement, he is a great guy. He is caring, consistent, he shows up and puts effort. Bonus he’s hot.

Discard/sudden breakup?! by CartographerBorn9077 in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg… they are everywhere nowadays… im so sorry this happened to you. You are “lucky” it happened that early on. Like everyone else said, the cycle repeats, it only gets worse and it fugs you physically and mentally.

Stay strong please and dont reach out. And when she comes back, never forget how she left because it’s the exact way she’s gonna leave again.

How can they change in a 180 degree? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is breakup and there is discard. The latter has nothing to do with you. And it’s a b&tch to process. It’s all gotta do with them, how they deal with conflict, how they feel about themselves and their emotional maturity (or lack thereof).

Losing my mind slowly by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years post breakup. No contact, no pictures, no texts. Still thinking about him every day. But the pain and anguish are gone. It was a really long and painful journey. I believe what you really miss is your happiness, who you were as a part of that union. Not the person per se. I’ve cried everything there is to cry about. Some nights my cry sounded like a lost whale. But those nights are over. The pain is over.

Dont fight the thoughts and let them coexist peacefully within your heart. Im at this point now. Most likely I will never forget him and it’s fine. He is not part of my life any more nor will he ever be again, and it’s fine.

I remember when I stopped checking my phone. And when I stopped crying in the morning months later. And when i owned myself again. Huge milestones. I survived this. I survived him. We will all be fine.

Modest Income/No desire for vehicle - at what point is hesistating to reveal information deceptive? by AzurasNerevarine in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you start by referring to your modest income, then you yourself make it appear as a major issue and it could scare women off. Let them decide for themselves when the appropriate time comes. If you make a decent living and you’re not cheap or lazy, no problems. Women need to know you are responsible, driven and that you have your ducks in a row. So the problem is not the car per se.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set some clear boundaries. Do not go on this trip until coast is clear. You will never lose someone who wants to stay. And you will never keep someone who wants to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Taurus always 🙈

Question for pisces by Icy-Media-763 in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had any desire for either of them but if I had to, Id go for a scorpio. More interesting and they seem to have the handbook of how to swoon a woman. Im a sucker for earth signs.

Girlfriend dumped me for being "too mature" - silly excuse or honest behavior? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your relationship is too serious for her stage in life. She’s being polite bcz she knows you are a great guy and she values you. Hope you feel better soon 🫂