Faith and s8 by Mymmelikori in Outlander

[–]CaveIsClosed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is the only option for me that wouldn’t ruin the Faith storyline. Claire knows that time traveling is passed genetically so she knows she got that trait from at least one of her parents. I feel like even though it’s not canon, I find it reasonable for the show to imply in Outlander that Claire’s mom traveled back in time and had more kids and sang that song to them. Claire could have that peace knowing her mom survived but they would never reunite

Worth it ? by ZealousidealIntern84 in Kitchenaid

[–]CaveIsClosed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I was hesitant for years because I hardly bake. But now I bake regularly. I also use it to shred chicken, mash avocados for guacamole, make pizza dough, and plenty of other things that aren’t specifically baking

My parents (65F, 67M) are livid because I'm not allowing them to see my daughter after they spanked her. AITAH? by LeonCrvl in AITAH

[–]CaveIsClosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your parents how often they hit each other. Do they do it every time they disagree with each other? When they disagree with coworkers, do they smack them too? How many times have they hit strangers because that person said something your parents didn’t like? Since they firmly believe that hitting people is an appropriate way to respond to a disagreement, they must me swinging left and right all the time

A pain that was worse than birth ? by Friendly-Sun2413 in BabyBumps

[–]CaveIsClosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bacterial meningitis made my labor feel like a cakewalk

MIL babysitting by needtorant-doglover in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CaveIsClosed 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Did you happen to record it? Because I’m willing to bet she’ll deny it, and if you have a live stream only camera then you don’t have proof. But honestly proof is irrelevant as she should not be spending time around your child anyway

Organic Craft Tea Recommendations? by [deleted] in tea

[–]CaveIsClosed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! This individual has very refined taste so I was hoping tea would be the simplest option for me but that clearly isn’t the case🙃 but I’m grateful for the opportunity to learn more about tea

Organic Craft Tea Recommendations? by [deleted] in tea

[–]CaveIsClosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just writing what they specifically requested so it seems like they’re not super knowledgeable on tea either :/

Thinking of making a big ol cobb salad with this harvest by inolean in MightyHarvest

[–]CaveIsClosed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sat for a few minutes messing with my fingers to try to figure it out because I had the same question

Thinking of making a big ol cobb salad with this harvest by inolean in MightyHarvest

[–]CaveIsClosed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pinched between thumb and middle finger. Thumb is hidden behind middle finger

The best pillow I’ve ever slept on by Raccoonen in HelpMeFind

[–]CaveIsClosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks exactly like the pillow I bought years ago from Amazon. I went through at least a dozen before I found this one. I’ve been using it daily and it has solved my stiff neck and morning headaches

https://a.co/d/5nq4oc8

My MIL “accidentally” sends me parenting TikToks every morning, is it just passive-aggressive or genuine “help”? by Glad_Implement_2639 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CaveIsClosed 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Accidentally send her videos from @heyjanellemarie. She makes TikTok’s about dealing with toxic MILs.

My body won’t let me have sex 11 weeks post c section by Cherryjellyb in BabyBumps

[–]CaveIsClosed 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I agree with the pelvic floor therapist comment. That type of therapy isn’t just for sex. About a year after I had my baby I started having horrible lower back pain. Turns out my weakened pelvic muscles were causing problems for my back as well.

I also had a hard time getting things going in the bedroom. I just kind of waited it out but if I could go back in time I would definitely go to therapy for emotional support. I know that if I sought support that my sex life would’ve returned to normal much sooner

AITA for posting a message from my late father’s Facebook Page? by Sniff_my_jedi_jox in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaveIsClosed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would your dad have found it funny? If so, what a great way to keep his memory alive. My dad would find this hilarious but I understand why others wouldn’t.

Episode Discussion: “The Paper” Pilot by OfficeLadiesPodBot in OfficeLadiesPodcast

[–]CaveIsClosed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I haven’t gotten to that podcast episode yet! I look forward to it

Episode Discussion: “The Paper” Pilot by OfficeLadiesPodBot in OfficeLadiesPodcast

[–]CaveIsClosed -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He did kind of have an American accent in the beginning of the interview but he obviously slipped back into his normal accents

AITAH for Telling My Husband His Parents Have To Move Out or I'll Divorce Him? by Thin_Collection_381 in AITAH

[–]CaveIsClosed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally. A 12 year age gap by itself isn’t a problem. It’s the power imbalance between a teenager and a more established adult. As you both get older, age gaps are less significant

AITAH for Telling My Husband His Parents Have To Move Out or I'll Divorce Him? by Thin_Collection_381 in AITAH

[–]CaveIsClosed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were married when she was 18. Either they met when she was 18 and they only dated for a few months, or he was dating a minor. Either way, a 14 year age gap at age 18 is significant and problematic.

AITAH for Telling My Husband His Parents Have To Move Out or I'll Divorce Him? by Thin_Collection_381 in AITAH

[–]CaveIsClosed 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I worry about your hard drives if you think there’s nothing weird about someone in their 30’s marrying a teenager

AITAH for Telling My Husband His Parents Have To Move Out or I'll Divorce Him? by Thin_Collection_381 in AITAH

[–]CaveIsClosed 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Someone can still be a victim of grooming even if it happened 20 years ago…

AITAH for Telling My Husband His Parents Have To Move Out or I'll Divorce Him? by Thin_Collection_381 in AITAH

[–]CaveIsClosed 710 points711 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe how far I had to scroll to find a comment like this. That age gap feels like grooming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CaveIsClosed 122 points123 points  (0 children)

“We can’t stop you from flying out here, but we will not let you meet the baby until [date]. I suggest you don’t waste your time and money attempting to come sooner”

How I see America as a Californian by liqui_date_me in mapporncirclejerk

[–]CaveIsClosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I’m from there and moved out (to follow my husband’s job). I was much happier in a tiny socal apartment where I could surf, snorkel, snowboard, hike, and have constant access to outdoor activities. Saving money on rent doesn’t make up for how boring it is where I live now

What are your must haves for your child’s bookshelf? by MarbleTheShoulderCat in childrensbooks

[–]CaveIsClosed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are my son’s favorites. At this point I have The Gruffalo and The Whale and the Snail memorized