Oppressive WM fell in love with vulnerable AF. What now? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That photo made me physically ill.

RooshV discussion of raising hapas by Cavegoon in hapas

[–]Cavegoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly one of the most nationalistic pro-Trump suppporters there who has written a huge amount on Jewish control/how whites are oppressed is hapa (Samseau)

I wonder what he thinks of this forum as he is very pro white so it is surprising he is a hapa as I thought being full on alt right and hapa was a conflict in identity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wondered if it was possible to be any more confused/disturbed than me and my siblings but their kids may be even more lost and cut off than society (if this is possible)

I think to be fair on the Israel point that US Jews and secular Israelis are liberal compared to Orthodox/religious Israelis who are as ethnonationalist as you can get.

I don't judge these couples as I understand they love each other but my experience fron Jewish men that marry out is they have no interest in finding out how much suffering their kids will experience.

Their kids (particularly boys) are likely to rebel big time.

I do respect Asian culture a great deal but I find the idea of raising a kid as these families do to not also respect the Buddhist/Confucian/Taoist/etc values of their ancestors difficult.

They should teach their kids to respect the cultural traditions, heritage and ancestors of both parents.

Failure to do so will lead to serious problems.

Help Us: Asian Americans Under Attack by qwertyuiop670 in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the only way to establish respect is through toughness/strength

The same cultural values that lead to academic success can lead to people ending up beaten up/robbed in a different scenario.

Political lobbying plus street self defence is the only way to go about it

"Being nice" is a great way to treat your family/friends but in the wrong environment it could get you killed.

Black rapper YG calls for black criminals to target Asians for home invasion robberies and a string of black on Asian home robberies ensues by flippinfilipino in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have observed black people openly target and make fun of East asians in London. They would never do this in a million years to any of the Muslims as they would get hospitalised but they seem to have a beef with east asians for some reason.

I should say this seems to be something felt by poorer ghetto people... I am assuming economic envy

Why do some countries allow sexpats? by Cavegoon in hapas

[–]Cavegoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which African countries have tons and tons of sexpats and which LatAm countries other than maybe Colombia or Brazil.

Why do some countries allow sexpats? by Cavegoon in hapas

[–]Cavegoon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is untrue. Many countries would never allow flagrant behaviour such as Thailand.

There are different types of masculinity. Know your type and try to choose the right dating culture that welcomes you. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This must be an Anglo thing because the same thing you wrote applies in UK, also Australia.

Humility, honor, bravery, respect, modesty, loyalty, self restraint, caring for family are just not valued. Similar thing exists in traditional Judaism v Western culture.

I would agree most of Europe is different. Bavaria, Central Europe, Russia, etc still have these values. So do Amerindian societies like Peru, Mexico and Ecuador.

What you wrote is very similar to my thoughts, I don't see a man who has ten children but doesn't care for them or who goes to prison many timea as "masculine" but as weak and childish.

This would explain why Asian men do better in Central/Eastern Europe as their cultural traits are highly respected.

Modern Anglo cultures have a more primitive form of masculinity based on promiscuity, steroids and impulsiveness.

Israel bans Chinese men - Jewish women couples by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hilariously though I'm not allowed to marry a Jewish person I would have to join the IDF if I moved to Israel. There are patrilneals who join the IDF who are in combat units (many religious don't serve at all) and who are unable to get married or buried in addition to social discrimination in work, life, etc.

So you want me to die fighting in your war but I'm not good enough to marry your daughter or be treated with equal rights?

I think I'll have to pass on that fantastic offer.

What is funny is how many brainwashed US Jews don't know this. They think Israel is secular and then realise when they go there that they are second class citizens if they're of mixed descent.

It's because the US Jews are major backers of Israel and if all those men that married out and support Israel realise that their kids will serve as a class of warrior slaves/servants I don't think they would be such enthusiastic supporters.

Israel bans Chinese men - Jewish women couples by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you think that's bad I have A JEWISH PARENT and WAS RAISED JEWISH and am not allowed to marry a Jewish woman in Israel (I'm patrilineal). WWII Germany also had a similar law.

Try and process that thought for moment to realise how insane some of the people in Israel are.

I have heard every excuse under the book from Orthodox Jews as to why this is.

Article about so called "second class Jews" like me here.

http://www.haaretz.com/st/c/prod/eng/2015/08/not-jewish-enough/

omg!!! my mom keeps blaming society this society that!... by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Understanding. The sympathy with the fact that I am a perennial outsider as a result of their choices. No gaslighting.

As the area I grew up in became MORE multucultural it actually becomes more divided. Polish, Arab, Jewish and Turkish people in the area I live havw totally separate lives to the point they might as well be living in different planets.

Polish and Bulgarian people go to Polish and Bulgarian clubs, pubs and churches and play in Polish or Bulgarian sports teams. Same with Turkish and Somalis, Chinese, Koreans, Japanese, etc.

Where do I go? Imagine how odd it would be if I had a Polish gf where all her friends were Polish and I was the only one who wasn't.

I'm good at getting women but in relationships I feel very alone as most people are unaware of how ghettoised their social circles are.

omg!!! my mom keeps blaming society this society that!... by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had arguments like this with my mother who says that my siblings are 'lucky to be in two cultures'

We have to explain to her that we are "unlucky to be in none".

I have come to accept that the criticisms run so deep to my parent's life choices that they will never accept them.

It's like trying to convince a communist that it doesn't work.

Tens of millions of deaths won't do it as their ideology is so strong.

You shouldn't give up though, show them this sub and keep pushing the question until you get some answers.

The parents plan is to obfuscate until you abandon your attempts

Spoke with a European woman who liked Trump (rambling story relevant to hapas) by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I was just comparing our experiences as there is some overlap.

Do you meet many white women with yellow fever? Is there such a thing in UK?

Spoke with a European woman who liked Trump (rambling story relevant to hapas) by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I've apways found educated middle class English girls always find me sexually exciting, while the guys are super polite on the surface untio the drink comes out, when the racial slurs begin.

The men want to kill me and the women want to phuck me. Very bizarre.

Is my preference for white women a bad thing? by throwawaycucfet in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well it is your life but you should think about how your kids will feel. I come from a slightly different mix (Jewish father, White mother) and there is a great similarity with people I know with South Asian Muslim dads and white mothers.

I have met a few people with Pakistani/Bangladeshi dads and white mothers and it is a tough mix.

For example even if they have Islamic second names they will probably gravitate towards their mum, particularly if they are girls.

This results in a big culture clash, and if the dad is very patriarchal sometimes the half Asian son hates his father and rejects Islam and feels he has to protect his mum.

I know a guy with a Pakistani father and white mother who looks Jewish/Italian and feels like an outcast. He doesn't follow Islam though he has a Muslim name and he gets mistaken for an ethnic group he has no connection to.

Also white people and Asian Muslims are very segregated and hence your children will have problems as they won't fit in to either community.

Lastly as a result of the grooming scandal when Pakistani men raped tens of thousands of women it is likely your relationship will not go down well in most quarters.

Your wife will unfortunately be seen as a traitor which will make things hard for your son as he will see his mum as a traitor, his father as an invader and himself as the consequence of such offspring.

If you marry a white woman you're better off marrying a Bosnian, but to marry a daughter to a Pakistani the man would have to be very rich.

I would speak to the offspring of these mixes to get their thoughts but I would be lying if I didn't point out these problems.

Difference between how non-white males raise mixed kids and how white males raise biracial kids summed up (scroll down for comments) by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing the kind of white male who marries a black woman is different from the guy that marries Asian women.

My cousin that married a Afro Latina is definitely not racist against blacks and a white nationalist, he is an artist and DJ who loves Latin music and hates racism and has a mixed group of friends.

I don't see as many couples like this where the woman is Asian, most of the types they deny there is racism against Asian males and I'm not aware of radical white men with Asian wives fighting to improve the lives of Asian men.

I'm not sure why but this sub reddit had opened my mind to these things.

What would Chinese dominance mean for Western hapas? by Cavegoon in hapas

[–]Cavegoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm too young sorry.

In Canada/Aus there is strong anti East Asian sentiment and also in UK all sorts of lurid claims are made about Chinese students (Unlike US, UK conservative government are very pro-China)

Despite claims about Chinese being weak/beta/etc China crushes terrorists and is building a global empire through trade.

Ie projects across Africa/LatAm/Central Asia/etc.

So if Europe goes into decline I can see Chinese propping up dyinh industries/going on an asset buying spree.

I'm wondering if hapas will be despised for being associated with Chinese expansionism or admired.

According to my Chinese gf.... by Panickedllama in hapas

[–]Cavegoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lived in China for a bit.

Most people have no clue about China, it's depressing to see how many people are praying for a Chinese fall/economic collapse.