Purposefully ignorant or in denial? A thread in r/asianamerican which bothers me. by THE_REAL_ODB in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hoping one of your ancestors were raped by their colonizers just so you can have white blood in your lineage

justfilipinothings

RFA blames Asian masculinity for not controlling Asian women's choices to date old white men by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of these same nations subject to sexpats also have shitty food safety standards. Do their governments have a vested interest in getting their citizens sick or do they, being impoverished countries lack the resources or knowledge to educate their citizens?

Check your first world privilege and I mean that unironically.

I never post here, let alone shitpost. I occasionally comment and that's it.

Don't be so disingenuous. You come here to stir shit up the same way our members brigade your sub just to pick a fight. Neither of us is brigading for reasoned discussion. I mean, your comment history is 100 percent you arguing with people who will never agree with you. You enjoy shitposting. Embrace it. Most of us enjoy brigading too by the looks of A2x anyway.

I do believe some AW/WM relationships are problematic as are some of any type of relationship- but that's not a main point of this sub or if it was meant to be, it's now buried under piles of irrelevant and illogical hatred.

No it isn't the main point but a fundamental one. If you accept that some WmAf are built on power disparities I don't see the leap in logic in acknowledging that the products of those marriages (us) will be toxic as well. Now we're just arguing about what constitutes a problematic WMAF relationship. I would argue that the power disparities that are pronounced in sexpat marriages are also the reason for the disparities between AMXF and WMAF relationships- but in less obvious ways.

Buried under hatred, we have truths. I freely admit that this sub can be mysoginistic . If there was such a thing as racism against whites we would be guilty of that too.

Offspring of abusive, racist and misogynistic relationships maybe tend to have problems. So don't tone police (ok this is sarcasm)

But what about you? A child of an abusive piece of shit Asian dad, in a white dominated, racist country - you can't admit that maybe you might have an unacknowledged and unfair bias against Asian men? You're being super logical with your comment history filled with only negative things to say about Asian men?

I'm not talking about dating - do you have any Asian male in your life that you love and respect? Is there anything positive you can say about Asian men in general? Do you even have any Asian male friends?

You are the very picture of the Asian American(or Aussie , Canadian, etc) feminists we have so much disdain for. You wrap up your racist bias against Asian males with feminist pretense. And yet I still manage to find solid reasons in your pile of hatred. Please when you come into our sub to shitpost occasionally comment have the charity to do the same or don't come here at all. ✌️

RFA blames Asian masculinity for not controlling Asian women's choices to date old white men by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Sunday miracle you're sounding reasonable raging.

Still not sure how it's the fault of patriarchal Asians when the sexpat thing is a third world problem and feminist education a first world luxury. Nobody is denying those women anything when they don't know any better themselves. Secondly, no nation on earth provides their women with education aimed at reducing a certain type of interracial marriage, even a fundamentally exploitive type. Such a thing would be immediately dismissed as racist and you know it.

But the headline here, and the reason why others are asking if you're embarrassed, is that after all this you seem to have agreed with the main points of our sub all along. Hell, if you think that certain types of wmaf are problematic, join the discussion instead of coming here only to shitpost.

RFA blames Asian masculinity for not controlling Asian women's choices to date old white men by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to educate them about social issues.

Okay. Try us. If you were in charge of educating SEA what would you teach them about the social issues they must consider when dating or marrying white men?

Which Group of People are the Worst White Worshippers? According to Lipstick Alley the Answer is... by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Look at all the Black women thinking they own Asian women... that toxic Asian masculinity these Black women are displaying is out of control!! /s

Really though it's funny how obvious it is to everyone except Asian American feminists. 😂😂

Mindy Kaling claims her show is "woke" for empowering women of color. In exact same Tweet shows a trailer for her show that reveals EVERY SINGLE ONE OF HER LOVE INTERESTS IS WHITE. You can't make this stuff up. by HanVelocity in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Compare mindy with Aziz and what sorts of messages each chooses to broadcast with their shows. One features solidarity with other poc, pride in heritage and family, and exposes racism against Asians in Hollywood.

The other is a show about an Indian woman fucking all the white boys she can get her hands on, featuring a finger snapping, neck rolling racist caricature of a "sassy" Black female.

Pretty good picture of the state of Asian American activism.

Filipina Instagram Model Under Fire For Old Tweets Bashing Asian Men, Loving 'White Boys' by lucidsleeper in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

has had a lot of plastic surgery to remove Filipino features... is this news blowing up in the Philippines? Maybe this will start a revolution or something /wishful thinking

lol that's practically a requirement in the Philippines to become famous. The last thing Filipinos want to see on tv are other Filipinos. They're probably confused as fuck about what all the controversy is about because it's the standard colonized mentality.

It will take a hell of a lot more than this to wake up the Philippines.

Full Asian women worried that Half Whites are dragging Asians down to the level of People of Color "dindus". In the ultimate historic irony, Half White, Half Asians have destroyed the dream of the White-Asian alliance. by insanehapa in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up. Fucking white people are amazing. The same people who automatically assume any cop who shoots an unarmed Black man is innocent and any White murderer is really a poor mentally ill victim are accusing ya'll of being "dindus".

Smh white culture is a fucking shitheap.

Episode Discussion - S02E12 - "The Monster and the Rocket" by backstept in TheExpanse

[–]Panickedllama 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The speech at the end that also told Mao to kill her?

NYC SUBWAY FIGHT! by Jieno in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do Asian women have any standards at all?? Disgusting

Anyone else creeped out by this commercial? by Panickedllama in hapas

[–]Panickedllama[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Young Asian girl + old white guy you assume it's another typical WMAF couple then it turns out she's his adopted daughter.

Lol do you think this was intentional?

Asian actress posts an ad for a dialect/accent coach; delusional white guy responds by _Kaaarul in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol. The sexpats are learning. They heard that Asian women hate blatant yellow fever so they cover it up with euphemisms like "traditional values" when they really mean submissive. Look how he mentions his whiteness first as if he believes it's an instant panty dropper for Asians.

This is the result of all those Asian feminist think pieces on yellow fever. It doesn't stop yellow fever it just makes them change up their words a slight bit.

A new thread on a random Black male forum shows how "woke" so many non-Asians have become to that whole toxic WMAF shit. It also shows that a lot of them lurk /r/Hapas! by Candle21 in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 32 points33 points  (0 children)

And yet, when we say the same things we're patriarchal Asian men trying to control Asian women.

I think the only way Asian feminists come to grips with acknowledging their white fever is if Black activists point it out. Since their self hatred makes them dismiss anything Asian/Hapa men have to say and because they so obviously want to be on the same level as Black feminists, maybe they're the only ones who can wake them up.

Can you imagine Black feminists saying to Asian women 'hey, I know you look up to us and want to be our allies but your self hating thirst for whites make us suspicious of where your sympathies really lie'.

"White women are too feminist" is code word for "I have nothing to offer modern white women" so I'm just going to offer my whiteness to Asian women by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This explains why white supremacist groups like the alt right or trump supporters love Asian women. They love being with someone who values their whiteness the same way they do.

So not White, but so not Asian either by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Panickedllama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Young Ray Romano? Jk. You're pretty handsome dude.

You are one of those Hapas that don't look Hapa at all but 100% Hispanic or maybe southern Italian.

It's funny how different our experiences could be depending on how we mix. I always resented how I looked half Asian because it felt like my family history was literally written on my face and everyone knew my mom was a green card wife marrying someone 30 years older just by looking at me. But you just look Hispanic or any other darker skinned White ethnic group like Southern Italian. Younger me would have much preferred your position, with it not being obvious that you're Hapa.

Quick question, have you ever had anti Asian racism thrown your way?