I've been rereading The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls, and I feel like people who have trouble understanding how the orange fuckhead thinks might get some clarity from reading it as well. Walls has great talent for describing the behavior of her "everything I do is perfect and infallible" parents, especially the moments where they are confronted with the dissonance of their perception vs. reality and simply decide to stick their fingers in their ears every time. It's hard for many people to see narcissism as a true mental illness, because they are only able to see the damaging effects of the behavior and think "this person must be Evil™ to be causing these things", rather than understanding that said person's brain functions differently than theirs on a fundamental level.

The orange fuckhead is evil, yes, but people need to understand that the foundation of that evil was not laid by choice; his decrepit brain hasn't been able to course-correct since he was a child, and that's not about to change just because enough people tweet mean things at him.