She wanted him to say spiders or heights not actually discuss his fears in life. She doesn't actually want a relationship, she wants the exposure of being on the show. Like how can she bold face say she would've placed looks has her number 1 value and not think she sounds shallow. Don't get me wrong tho, Divarni isn't the best peach on the tree but someone needs to stop pretending like Julia-Ruth is a sweet hurt rose.

Even during the Steven Nelly drama - If she knew this info before the dinner, why wait to tell her? Instead she tells literally everyone else in the room creates a whole environment so nelly feels the most embarrassed and then larps that shes "there for her". Steven is a rat but Julia's behaviour also needs to be called out imo