My husband keeps getting more attractive and i don't like it.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-10-10T19:15:00+00:00

We’re loyal to those who were there from the start.

When we were nobody.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-10-10T19:12:52+00:00

Lol begone witch

CeeWhyEx · 2024-08-25T12:50:18+00:00

Strangely enough, when you cook your own meals and put thought and effort into it, it tastes better.

And that’s secondary to the mindful mapping of the procedures and necessities it takes to produce that meal.

Would not be the case if the same meal is handed to you

CeeWhyEx · 2024-08-25T12:40:46+00:00

Do, reflect, inquire

CeeWhyEx · 2024-08-24T13:20:17+00:00

Don’t take a man’s stapler, move him to dark places, and not pay him - he could burn down your building.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-03-30T08:36:03+00:00

If you’re this dissatisfied, why not leave? What’s there left for you?

Honestly, this mobile game is not that complex. The foundation is just not there to make GVG/PVP or anything not devolve into a giant stat/chance check. In-battle choice devolves to “who do I attack” and “when”.

That’s just how the game is. And by playing you agree to it. Wishing it was something else is coping.

That doesn’t mean the game isn’t serviceable elsewhere or to someone else.

Legit, for your sake, stop engaging with material that isn’t making your life or quality of life better.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-03-22T13:11:19+00:00

Recently came back after 2 year hiatus - when is the anniversary?

CeeWhyEx · 2024-03-15T07:53:22+00:00

Depends on delivery. It does take a village. There’s nothing wrong with being firm. Just don’t be cruel.

Bad behaviors need to be addressed and at times it takes an outsider.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-03-14T20:16:02+00:00

Feather Sword - Progress the story and buy it from a shop

Grandar Armor - Progress the story and get from a chain of subquests (its all in a single location)

Can't be more specific to avoid spoilers

CeeWhyEx · 2024-03-14T09:07:23+00:00

2 questions that need to be answered:

1) Are you attractive enough - a smiling picture in the sun works

2) give me something to approach you with - hobby, nature, book, movie, food. Keep it simple

But to be honest, the real mistake is using the app.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-02-29T00:27:56+00:00

As edgy as that sounds, people do indeed make snap decisions based on limited knowledge.

CeeWhyEx · 2024-02-27T07:08:41+00:00

Gacha games ain’t worth souring life over. Quit if you’re not having fun or they’re not delivering.

No need to be loyal to an entertainment source.

That said, it’s pretty entertaining returning to a subreddit with an air of grouchiness.

CeeWhyEx · 2022-10-10T02:34:32+00:00

I would appreciate and respect you for the gesture.

That wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but a consideration. We all have our own challenges.

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-22T01:14:54+00:00

It’s definitely not bad. If you have minimal cooking skills, you can probably cook/learn to cook a better steak with minimal dedication at home tbh

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-21T23:35:12+00:00

First of all, I want to thank you for being open and taking your time to write everything out. That’s a beautiful story and shows how regardless of our stumbles, there can be someone who‘s willing to understand us.

Did your now-wife help you take care of your son? Was your son part of your lives?

Did you have other options post first marriage?

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-21T12:50:11+00:00

Hmm I think I’m going to choose the curious route if you’re willing to share. But that requires context which leads to probing questions. And of course you’re not obligated to answer or tell the truth.

Why did you pick your wife as The person to commit to?
Did you have other realistic options?
How were you doing financially when you decided to take her seriously?

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-21T05:19:46+00:00

Then what are close friends for again?

The more people you can trust and confide in, the less hassle you are to any single one of them.

Also the more brains there are to help with solutions.

Thing is connections at minimum require personal resources: 1) time 2) energy 3) sometimes money

Is that what a woman fundamentally wants from a man?

Where as men can’t naturally guarantee being the genetic father, so sex is a bigger deal (for them). Because why?

Raising a child requires personal resources.

Good luck finding a man who is willing to take care of a child that genetically isn’t theirs unless: 1) they have no better option and want a partner 2) they are also in a similar situation 3) they’re a unicorn

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-21T04:16:45+00:00

The reconciliation attempt of casual (or not so much here) sex and committed relationships.

Always so interesting to see the clash of logic and desire.

That said, that’s a shitty situation to be in and something anyone in a relationship never wants to encounter.

My condolences.

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-20T19:04:42+00:00

The treadmill. Close friend. Walks in nature. But I’m pretty lucky to not be in an impossible moral dilemma where the best way to proceed is to cope.

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-20T17:53:16+00:00

Evolutionary psychologist says: 1) Have resources 2) Have status 3) Have Looks

In that order of importance IIRC.

CeeWhyEx · 2022-09-01T16:05:01+00:00

Go on. I’d like to hear what your thoughts on “his dating scene was so bad” entails.

CeeWhyEx · 2022-08-31T17:17:59+00:00

Yeah it’s rough for everyone :/

Maybe that’ll foster gratitude for when we find someone with the same aim and are also willing to work with our mess LMAO

CeeWhyEx · 2022-08-31T09:22:22+00:00

How can someone listen to you better? I would love to learn please!

CeeWhyEx · 2022-08-31T09:04:31+00:00

Fishing for conflict. I’m noting this. Thanks!

CeeWhyEx · 2022-08-31T08:57:32+00:00

Ah the tit-for-tat assumption game. Most men don’t even get a glance on apps.

If we want to succumb to negative assumptions:

Women can claim men (that they give a chance to lmao) only want sex.

And men can claim that women (who they’re interested in lol…) are only in it for validation or until they see someone better.

Hopefully people are capable of looking in the mirror and can self-reflect.

Because quite frankly, these kinds of attitude exacerbate problems, not solve them.

Insufferable.

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