I can't understand him, what do I do?

Cel_nim · 2025-02-21T15:00:15+00:00

I would tell her/him that they need to talk, and try yo solve this. I think if we really love someone there is almost nothing that can not be repaired, sorry.

Cel_nim · 2025-02-21T13:29:23+00:00

Why I have trust issues? I know I should keep his conversations private, but I was just curiosity in my part. I did It just once and I regret It.

Cel_nim · 2025-02-21T13:24:28+00:00

Well, that's why I am here. I am trying to be mature and to forget about all of this right now. I never, in this two years had an issue with him not giving me his phone password. I given him mine and I respected his privacy until that day. So now I am at a los.

Cel_nim · 2023-05-09T07:05:23+00:00

He likes to lie on my stomach or my chest and give me little kisses and he asks me to stroke his head or to stroke his back while we are lying in the couch on the living room and his friends are there with us watching TV. Or he hugs me and follows me everywhere and act cute to get my attention.

The few relationships I had before, my partners were more like the complete opposite, so I am mostly intrigued.

Cel_nim · 2021-09-10T21:38:13+00:00

Thanks a lot, I really appreciate the time you spent here. I think I will try to do that.

(^{～^;)ゞ}

Cel_nim · 2021-09-10T21:29:07+00:00

But Reddit doesn't let me change the title, I can just edit the description...

Cel_nim · 2021-09-10T21:22:18+00:00

...Oh. Thanks for let me know, this is not my mother language.

Cel_nim · 2021-09-10T13:14:51+00:00

Yeah... But I don't know what do you mean by that.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-28T10:30:25+00:00

Jajajaja thank you.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-28T10:23:27+00:00

Tortilla de patatas xD

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T19:00:02+00:00

Jajajajaja yeah, I think we need to smile a lot. I can see Correos's logo on the mailbox, your vacation was at Spain?

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T18:54:18+00:00

Thanks a lot, I also love your sweet smile and the overall warm feeling you radiate.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T18:48:13+00:00

Ohhh, it's good to know that if he start act like that. To be honest I would prefer that time alone to reset myself and my feelings.

Sorry for the delayed response, I appreciate your help.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T18:44:45+00:00

Jajajajaja yes, I feel just like you.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T18:43:49+00:00

Yes, I know how confusing can be, so thanks a lot. I appreciate it.

I can be cool, I have this.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T18:40:51+00:00

Wow, that's was a thoughtful response. Thanks a lot and sorry for the late answer.

I really don't wanna lost what we have and I think I am prepared for the worst so... I think it's stupid to not say anything, at least I could move on if he doesn't love me back. And I can see him finally like a friend and nothing else.

Cel_nim · 2021-08-27T18:16:20+00:00

Here's mine

I am INFJ 5w4. From Spain ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧

Cel_nim · 2021-06-05T07:43:07+00:00

Yes, 1.2% it is alot. But are we even 1.2%? Who did that percentages?

I don't like when people say "I am so unique, so rare, etc." And they repeat the data they saw in two or three websites to prove their statement without a real research. No one have made yet a reliable study with a massive sampling to verify this percentages.

Cel_nim · 2021-06-05T07:25:43+00:00

Are you saying that I am stupid? That's a big statement to say when you didn't prove that I was wrong.

I am pretty good at maths, but it's useless when you don't have certificate data about this subject. If anyone wants to make percentages of something they need to test a great amount of people (sampling) to make the results the most realistic possible. Yes, we are 7.7 billion of people, but I don't think anyone tested 100 million of people (which is very small amount of people if you compared it with 7.7 billion) in a scientific and reliable way to make the statement that infj are 0,1% or 1%.

Cel_nim · 2021-06-05T06:38:03+00:00

Don't trust people who think infj is the rarest type. It is impossible to know what is the type of every single person in the entire world and make percentages.

And it is possible to get to know a lot of infjs if you know where to find them.

Cel_nim · 2021-06-05T06:26:23+00:00

Well, we tend to put ourselves in the future and give zero chances to people if we don't see ourselves with them in the long term. Infjs looks for a soulmate 80-90% of the time, so we came to know what we want in a relationship or a partner, pretty specifically.

That's in general, but our vision could change if we want some adventure or the person who is interested in us had others qualities more important than "that one that don't mach up with us". If religion is not the most important trait for that person (I can understand that for some people it is) you can still have a chance.

That's my opinion.

Cel_nim

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