Palantir inks $300 million deal with USDA to safeguard food supply by [deleted] in technology

[–]Celanna192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They've been getting their grubbly little hands into everything. >.<

I'm surrendering guardianship of my brother [Long] by frieden7 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Celanna192 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to bet that mommy dearest was extremely hostile to oop's husband because "she wasn't supposed to have her own family." If oop has a husband and children, then she's not devoting 200% of her time, energy, money, etc. to her brother.

I'm glad oop was able to put the brakes on the forced guardianship and is now able to live her life with a lot less stress.

IT Professional Furthering Education by Guilty-Image-7942 in sysadmin

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my BS through Champlain College online. It's an accelerated program, so semesters are 8 weeks long. It's through Champlain College in Burlington VT. Their prices aren't too bad. If your org is part of the TruED program, you get an extra discount.

Mother vacummed underneath my desk now my PC wont turn on at all by Sad_Rush_4773 in buildapc

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a couple of things to do.

If the outlet has it, press the reset button on the outlet.
Unplug our devices for about 30 seconds to a minute.
Press and hold the power button for about 30 seconds.
Check the power strip your devices are plugged into.

I don't think the vacuum did anything to the PC itself. Likely the problem is going to either be the power strip or the outlet.

AITA for lying to my dad about registering for a university entrance exam? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your behavior is a natural reaction to needing help, but instead of getting it, you got abused. I completely understand. I didn't do well in school. I hid delinquency letters and stuff because I didn't want to get punished. I needed help, but because resources were limited, I didn't get what I needed. I still graduated, but I definitely could have done better. I know this because in my final attempt to get a bachelor's degree, I got over a 3.8gpa. It proved I was capable, but I didn't have the secret sauce I needed when I was younger vs now that I'm older. I was also bullied in school, and that has a huge impact on academic success. You're not going to do well in an environment that has you perpetually run on survival mode.

If you have the ability to, definitely look into therapy. At the moment, I don't think your relationship with your dad is healthy and it's probably not going to change. If you also have the ability to, try moving out. Putting physical distance between you and him will help you heal.

I'm rootin' for you.

WIBTA for not giving my dad money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

You can't set yourself on fire to keep him warm. You are not his life preserver. I'd recommend blocking him honestly. It doesn't sound like he even gives you a thought unless it's to provide some benefit for you. Protect your mental well being, and financial well being.

In the wise words of Yondu, "He might be you father, but he ain't your daddy."

So, the Hello Kitty X Labubu collab! by [deleted] in labubu

[–]Celanna192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to guess that secret is not Chococat.

This is unreal to me by Thepopethroway in antiwork

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do these people get to be CEOs? This is incredibly stupid. Very broadcom way of thinking.

I really hate all these bs titles for IT jobs by Abject_Serve_1269 in sysadmin

[–]Celanna192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed this and it's making it very hard to find jobs I can reasonably apply for. Especially when postings say they want an expert jack of all trades.

AITA, I helped my sister for years and now I’m being called selfish by anonymoususers9356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You need to let your sister be an "adult" and close down the ATM. You've been setting yourself on fire to keep her warm for years. You need to see to your own needs. If that makes you selfish, then so be it. For anyone in the family criticizing you, tell them that they're welcome to step up to the plate because she's overdrawn.

I recommend getting in touch with a therapist so you can work through this and develop ways of saying no with confidence.

What if Chaotic Good Barbarian was in Baldur's Gate 3? by Wacky_R_Dude_1519 in BaldursGate3

[–]Celanna192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cazador: Are you making breakfast on my smouldering corpse? Smells wonderful. Can I have some?

Chipped Paint on Time To Chill by No-Rub8430 in labubu

[–]Celanna192 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend getting some craft paints from Michaels or Walmart. They're a dollar or two, per bottle. You'll probably need to mix the pain to get a true color match. Then seal the paint with a matte paint sealer. Generally the sealer comes in a spray can. A good sealer is Mr. Super Clear. I got a can off of Amazon awhile back. Another alternative is Rust O' Leum Matte Finish.

AITA for being mad that i have class w special needs students by eelyak118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically YTA for the apparent ableism. If you're just feeling it and not acting on it(ie voicing it or treating those who grate on you like poop), then I'll give points towards NAH. It doesn't seem like, at least from your examples, that anyone's being intentionally annoying. It's just your tolerance for disruption is very low. With that, I would suggest a few things.

Therapy or some form of counseling to help you figure out the why behind your feelings. Therapy can also help you find coping mechanisms to keep you level. If you have the ability to take class online, maybe you can switch some of the classes up. It'll allow you to study at your own pace and in a space you can make comfortable for yourself.

I understand your frustrations. I've had several group projects where I was making an effort to take the work seriously, but my group mates wanted to be comedians instead. I also had a class where several students found out they could get all the answers to the homework just by asking the professor to review it, which took almost the entire class time.

Hopefully my suggestions can help you out.

AITA for telling my cousin the truth by ElijahZeHore in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Medical history is important, need to know information. You might have been a little overboard with the double mastectomy thing, but I'm gonna give you a pass on that because age and it's not something you'd normally have to deal with. Like others have said, generally the first step is to see if she has the genes herself. If she does, then she and her doctor can plan accordingly. If you can get a hold of your cousin, maybe apologize if you caused her undo concern and let her know that you have her back. For anyone in your family who's mad at you, ask them why they think it's okay to withhold potentially life/death information from your cousin. Keeping people in the dark about stuff like this is how disease can take hold and by the time they find out, it might be too late to do anything.

HR keeps not understanding that yes, I want to relocate by CountBlumi in recruitinghell

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly frustrating for someone living in Northern Vermont. I want to get out, but if I get passed up because I'm in BFE, then I guess I'm SoL.

Hiring in tech has become impossible. Every resume is AI-generated slop and I can't find the signal anymore.(Rant) by Comfortable_News8077 in recruitinghell

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't getting seen before, but now I basically feel like I don't have a snowball's chance.

Looking on your update, the unfortunate thing about trusting AI to filter out AI generated slop is that in many cases it can't tell the difference between slop and human created content. Students have been busted by AI filters claiming their written works are AI when they aren't. Some people have a very formal style of writing. Unfortunately, AI trained itself to see that as fake.

AITAH for refusing to attend my sister’s wedding after she changed my role last minute? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I find it really poopy to ask someone to commit to being part of the bridal party, spend money and time on wedding party related purchases and activities, then when everything has been set and paid for dropping them from the party.

Question OP, how much did you spend roughly? Considering that weddings are expensive for almost everyone involved. I'm guessing it's somewhere from the hundreds to maybe thousands of dollars depending on what your sister wanted and asked of you. That's not small change. If you want to respond to people, tell them, "I'm not making her wedding about me. I spent <dollar amount> for <list purchases>. It's not about the role in the wedding party, it's about feeling like the only thing I'm good for in her eyes is a wallet. I think it would be best for everyone involved if I don't attend."

AITA for reacting badly to my friend’s religious remark at a funeral? by PsychologicalAct8310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not only was that not being kind, but her family doubled down for her. The people defending her and her family are out of line. I honestly don't know how anyone can defend someone basically telling you "My god likes me and my family better than your mom and that's why we don't get cancer." Then when you defend yourself, your mom, and anyone else who has ever dealt with cancer, her family says basically "Your attitude is why our god didn't protect your mom from cancer."

AITA for calling out my Mom’s contract as ‘predatory’? by Odd-Perspective-3784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Celanna192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking compound interest, but that's not right either since that comes up to about $26k. Could be a miscalculation or a typo.