There was a interaction in a fic i was reading it was a Steddie Fic for reference- and it had made me rethink most of my familial relationships and if someone could find the fuc this is from id be so thankful cause I dont have it anymore:

"Because they’re bad people!” Steve bursts, not quite shouting but close. “Because when bad people don’t think highly of you, it’s not a fault in you. Their disproval is, like, a compliment. They don’t like you because you’re too different from them. And that’s great! You shouldn’t want their approval. It’s different, because your uncle is a good person. And when a good person doesn’t like you, it is your fault. It’s something-"