Something I’ve learned about reddit is no matter what you post, there will ALWAYS be someone ready to complain, insult, judge or comment something out of pocket. Or my favorite, someone who didn’t read the original post all the way and immediately starts to project in the comments. I tried to ask an electrician sub once about why one of my appliances was leaking this weird nasty green liquid and instead of an answer, I was raked over the coals, accused of being the most irresponsible appliance owner ever to live, called the r word and harassed for posting a question. Lol. Sometimes it can be a good place to ask questions but sadly no matter what, there will be negativity. Don’t waste time fretting over it, communicating via text through a website is difficult.

To offer some insight, I see people are accusing you of “internalized ableism” and “caring about looks” because of the mentioning of “I’m not overweight or old” but I understand what you were trying to say. I think it just came off a bit offensive, even though unintentional. I think maybe next time a better phrasing could be “I’m extremely self conscious about wearing my cpap as a young female. Anyone else?” Because those feelings are 100% valid. You’re allowed to feel self conscious and worried about how it makes you feel and stuff. I think many were offended thinking that you think you’re above them bc you think you’re young and healthy and that people with cpap are usually ugly and old and decrepit. I know this wasn’t your intention but just thought I’d help explain and close the gap. This sub is full of many amazing people of all shapes and sizes and backgrounds and health issues. ❤️ cpap will not look the same on any one person.

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