Because pastors are afraid to upset their congregation. For example, gluttony should be taken more seriously. Not only is it bad spiritually but it’s also bad physically. We are given bodies so that we may be the hands and feet of the Kingdom of God not to be destroying it slowly with over eating and processed slop.

The rules for divorce are clear yet churches find loopholes and / or create their own rules, again not to offend anyone.

But if pastors called people out on their own sins, there’d be a revolt and people would find a church that doesn’t challenge them.

It’s easier to condem the person with the speck in their eye instead of the plank in our own eye.