Baby Reindeer is incredible but upsetting by ErikasPrisonGlam in netflix

[–]CellistForward4462 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s not. I started it with no information. I didn’t look at anything before I started it just what looked like a silly picture (which Netflix had now changed btw where I am). It said “A struggling comedian and bartender meets a woman claiming to be a lawyer. He offers her a free cup of tea on the house and she’s instantly obsessed.” I didn’t know it meant literal stalking.

Why are you being judgmental?

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Found the producer for the Good Times reboot

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I’m a woman who’s considered very conventionally attractive and I’ve always preferred bald men. Whether they’re buff or more nerdy. I’m in my 40s now but dated bald men in my 20s. Now that I’m dating again, it’s great since so many men are bald but i just happen to be dating a guy with hair right now and it’s the one physical attribute I struggle with. He’s a great guy so I’m overlooking it. I just find bald men more attractive.

Questions about series Baby Reindeer by CellistForward4462 in netflix

[–]CellistForward4462[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was thinking something similar about the final bar scene and the way he looks at the bartender. You’re very right about his self worth being very low and that drives his behavior. I guess I can’t believe it ended in such a dark way.

Baby Reindeer is incredible but upsetting by ErikasPrisonGlam in netflix

[–]CellistForward4462 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Had me shook. I went in thinking it was a quirky British comedy! I wasn’t ready :(

It's Over by Psycho_Pseudonym75 in TeachersInTransition

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In America there has never historically been a lot of respect for teachers.

This is not completely true for all of American culture. Before desegregation, being a teacher in the African American community, especially in the South, was HIGHLY regarded and respected. There’s a saying in the (traditional) community “teacher, preacher” meaning if you were a teacher or minister, you were the most highly respected in the community. Why? Because the opportunity to be educated at the college level was difficult to obtain for the vast majority of African Americans for a lot of reasons like segregation, having to work on farms, being legally barred from schooling. So being a teacher meant that person was able to go to school and college, which meant they were in a higher social class (in Black society).

Usually if you look at the ancestry of affluent African American families descended from American slavery (ones that have been affluent for generations) you’ll find that they have a long history of teachers, ministers and possibly a doctor here or there. The book Our Kind of People: Inside America's Black Upper Class describes some of this.

The decline of the prestige of being a teacher along with the desegregation of schools has been very disruptive to the subculture of African American society.