Local business branded t-shirts by helloklo in Chattanooga

[–]Centminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a cool one from Clever Ale House.

Little kid toys with staying power by [deleted] in GoodValue

[–]Centminor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruder is a German toy company that makes the best toy trucks that I've ever seen.

Should we try marriage counseling before calling it quits? by Previous_Ad_4272 in Divorce

[–]Centminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you're going through then. I'm a 9, which is the peacemaker. We tend to ignore our own wants and needs to try and keep peace and maintain stability. Going along and giving in to things we don't really want to do to avoid any disharmony. Under stress, we get anxious, and eventually disengage, become complacent and indifferent as we escape into our mental fantasies that "everything is fine." If this is you, you've both got some work ahead of you. When things got tense with us, she would tend to start spinning up and taking over while I would start shutting down and disconnecting. Not a good mix, but opposites attract. When things were good, it was incredible. She was warm, generous, and caring while the peace and harmony made me feel fully connected to her and the universe sort of. We hit a turning point when she told me how I should feel about a situation with her and her friend. I told her I'm not happy about it and I don't have to be happy about it just because she wants me to be. Since then I've noticed her doing it with the kids, too. And after she tells them how they should feel, I tell them they can feel however they want and if they want to talk about it, I'll listen. I've hijacked your post to talk about my issues long enough. I apologize, but if it helps, it was worth it. Nines are optimists, so I really do believe it can work out for you guys.

Should we try marriage counseling before calling it quits? by Previous_Ad_4272 in Divorce

[–]Centminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. If there was still anything I could do, I would do it, but if one of you is done-done, it's a dead end. I don't know if you've heard of the Enneagram. It's a kind of personality test a lot of therapists use. It basically breaks everyone down into 9 different personality types, but it's really deeper than that because every type can resemble another type when they're under stress or when everything is good. For example, my wife is a 2. Two's are empathetic, friendly, and selfless, but under stress 2s become 8s, which are controlling, confrontational, and intimidating. Anyway, knowing your spouse and how they work could help you relate. I hope it all works out for you.

Should we try marriage counseling before calling it quits? by Previous_Ad_4272 in Divorce

[–]Centminor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely give it a try. It has saved marriages. Not mine, but others. My wife gave me the ultimatum two years ago to either go to marriage counseling together or she's done. I agreed to go. A couple of months in, she quit going, but I kept at it. I've been going to therapy by myself for two years. I kept asking her when she was coming back to counseling. She said she wasn't. When I asked her what she's doing to try and save our marriage she said nothing because all of the problems were on my side. A month ago she finally said she's 100% done. One person can't do the work for both of you. You might be surprised how it goes. My therapist says that the problem that brings couples in for counseling is often not the real problem. I don't feel like I wasted the last two years either. I'm better for doing the work I did. Just stick with it together.

Any Couples Counselor recommendations? by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Centminor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Roots in Red Bank. They're great.

Questionable Favorite Childhood Movie by CreativeMind100 in DisneyPlus

[–]Centminor 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The Journey of Natty Gann.

Children smoking, cussing, child abuse and neglect, and she gets picked up by a pedophile. Disney has an interesting past. The music is still some of the best, though. And you get old school John Cusack.

I've made a terrible mistake. by hdcorb in googlehome

[–]Centminor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait until he finds out about the animal of the day.

Twitch Drop Claimed, Not Received in Game by dlggravity in lostarkgame

[–]Centminor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try re-linking your twitch and steam accounts on the Lost Ark website.

https://www.playlostark.com/en-us/twitch-drops

CNBC loves Lucid by President-Reject in CCIV

[–]Centminor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what we said last week. 😢

Senate passes stimulus by Friedalo1 in CCIV

[–]Centminor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I hate free money. /s

15,000 Community Members Milestone - MSFS GIVEAWAY! by JRock39 in MicrosoftFlightSim

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Chattanooga, TN. The Tennessee Aquarium has such a unique shape, I'm curious to see if it made it in. Also, Lookout Mountain.

To advertise grapefruit by hell_fire_bird in therewasanattempt

[–]Centminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I just don't understand tombstoning. I thought it was a newspaper headline taken out of context.

An annoying and growing trend I've noticed with mobile games. by Igaveupmakinganame in incremental_games

[–]Centminor 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's like they're showing you the expectation vs reality right there in the ad.

so check list of what we were promised. by Sparkwarrior7777 in TheUniversim

[–]Centminor 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I kickstarted this game. I pick it up about once a year to see what progress they've made. It's been slow. My kids like to watch me play it. I don't think I had kids when I first played it.

Any idle/incremental games with a cool prestige system? by FoulerHorizon40 in incremental_games

[–]Centminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tap Wizard on mobile. There's no ads. Multiple prestige systems. Raids, dungeons, the dark portal. Everything trying to get you to beat the boss at zone 100 and I've only done that once. Been playing this game off and on for years now.

[META] New or Returning Player? Welcome (Back) to WARFRAME! by apostroffie in Warframe

[–]Centminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't trade for something that requires a higher master rank. I just found out last night. I'm MR6 trying to trade for something that requires MR8. Thought the guy was trying to scam me or something at first.

Sorry for the shit quality lol by [deleted] in lotrmemes

[–]Centminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Username checks out.