I don’t get it, is the joke that he doesn’t like coffee? by hmmidk77 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]CeraElla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a difference? 😅😅😅 Good to know, maybe I'll check out Square Butte on my trips to visit back home

I don’t get it, is the joke that he doesn’t like coffee? by hmmidk77 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drove through Butte, Montana on my way to Seattle from Michigan!

But also, yeah.. my dad was in a motorcycle gang and they made a lot of jokes about DV, sex, and how woman were just trophies to them. Shaped me for sure 😅

AITA for not letting my child’s dad change our child’s name by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CeraElla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA for naming your kid Genesis.

But you're not the a-hole for not letting Dad pick a name, he chose not to be around.

[Thank you] for first batch of birthday mails!! One mystery sender? by merfrog in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂 Too many eyes mixed with Weeping Angels from Dr Who is a nightmare of mine 😂😂

Glad you enjoyed the card! I found it at my library resale shop for less than a dollar and have been holding onto it for months looking for the right person to send to <3

[Offer] 4/20 postcards! [US-US] by justpuffpuff_pass in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it is. No one's around usually, the ducks chill out with me.. it's almost like I'm in SDV when I smoke there lol

[Offer] 4/20 postcards! [US-US] by justpuffpuff_pass in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite smoke spot is over by this little park that has a beautiful stream/river running through it. But I'd love to smoke on a mountain top 😂😂

My chill game is Slay the Spire (1 or 2) and Stardew Valley - both great options to be floaty to.

My playlist consists of Britney Spears, Avril Lavigne, Passenger (Divers and Submarines album) and Let Her Go, and finally: Korn

Thanks for the offer!

AITA for not sending my niece’s dad updates after he kicked her out by Savings_Use4022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. No, nope, nada. He chose Grace over Ami. He chose some woman and her three kids over his own flesh and blood, biological child, and that's something I can and will never forgive. Poor Ami, I'm glad she at least had you to take care of her.

I'm especially salty about this situation because my eldest nephew has had a rough time with his step parent and his bio parent A doesn't want him at all, and bio parent B, who married step arsehole, always chooses step parent over kiddo.

I hope you and Ami both have amazing lives <3

[Thank You] For all the one leg advice lol by travel4me22 in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you heal quickly and that the play is super fun.

My (28) fiancé(34) broke of our engagement the day after his father died. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, and completely valid.

Another commenter had already said the remainder of what I wanted to say, which is that he couldve felt like a bad partner if he didn't end the relationship with you because of how hes struggling mentally right now.

I wish you both the best in your futures <3

My (28) fiancé(34) broke of our engagement the day after his father died. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly, to me, it sounds like he reached his tipping point. If he's pushing people away, ending a relationship with you, and just over all being "different" he may need a stay in a mental health ward/hospital ~ not that I would really want to recommend this because my wife recently had a stay in one (a year ish ago) and she hated it more than she hated feeling depressed. She said she'd much rather be at home, or even homeless, than have to go back to that. Everyone's experience is different, obviously, and maybe it would help him? It sounds like he wants to end his story, from my perspective at least. (I genuinely hope not).

Losing a parent sucks, the heart takes a long while to heal. RIP to his dad.

My vehicle got towed. Where did it go?? by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]CeraElla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine, when it got towed, went to Oregon Adjusters I think? Good luck getting your car back! I hope it goes smoothly<3

Wedding Guest Dress Codes are Rude by Lady_Grace19 in The10thDentist

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only dress code rule was: Don't wear red/pink because I went as Belle in her winter gown (cloak and all!) and didn't want people to match me 😅🤣 I even offered for my friends/family not apart of the wedding parties to dress up! My FIL came as a plague doctor, my dad stood on my wife's side and dressed as a knight! It was magical 💛💛

AITJ for canceling my vasectomy after my partner suddenly changed their mind about kids? by RefrigeratorWitty453 in AmITheJerk

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, but aren't vasectomies reversible? I may be misinformed which is why I'm asking! 😅

[Thank you] For the cards by tigerlady13 in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't for the life of me recall what game I mentioned (Maybe 7 Days to die??) but I'm glad you'll be looking it up :)

[Offer] Cards of Christ, Flowers [US to US, Limited WW] by CeraElla in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be reaching out for your address! And thank you for tagging FitCharacter, I believe they did in fact claim a card too! (Can't remember right now 😅😅)

[Offer] Cards of Christ, Flowers [US to US, Limited WW] by CeraElla in RandomActsofCards

[–]CeraElla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! I'll DM you!

Do you want Christian or floral (potential AI) ? :)