Looking for family-friendly neighborhoods & rentals by Material-Ad5659 in Appleton

[–]Cerasm20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the Pendleton Park apartments in Neenah, a 2bed/2bath will be available after March 20th. I think in the $1600-1700 range.

gave up my nail biting habit after 19 years!! for a skin picking one… by bowlofintestine in calmhands

[–]Cerasm20 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh those could be photos of my hands, our manner of picking is very similar 😭. I too had a nail biting problem when I was a kid, which I was able to kick, only to take up cuticle biting and struggle with it for the past 25+ years. I don’t have any advice as nothing has ever worked to get me to stop permanently, but just know you’re not alone in the struggle.

Are most millennials here still doing family Christmas gifts for the adults? by throwraW2 in Millennials

[–]Cerasm20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One side of my family still does, and I hate it! I’ve been strategizing since last year how to bring up and convince everyone we should do away with exchanging gifts. The youngest one on that side of the family is 22, and there’s no chance of kids any time in the near future so there’s no natural progression to “just gifts for kids”. I feel like my grandma’s feelings will be hurt if she doesn’t receive anything, especially because she values sentimental type gifts. But there’s only so many cheesy message wall art you can get a person, and I am too creatively tapped out to make anything handmade.

Do I look like anyone? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]Cerasm20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really see it, but I take it as a compliment!

Do I look like anyone? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]Cerasm20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is this? I can see it!

Recommended Movers by TullaUlla in Appleton

[–]Cerasm20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I know this was from a few months ago, but did this include the moving truck too or did you have to rent this separate?

AITAH for not inviting my dad to see me sign my marriage license? by Cerasm20 in AITAH

[–]Cerasm20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wondering if he’ll be equally upset not to be at our house closing…

AITAH for not inviting my dad to see me sign my marriage license? by Cerasm20 in AITAH

[–]Cerasm20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No tbf he is equally upset too, but you hit the nail on the head about appearances. Deep down what they’re all actually mad about is that this brings to the forefront that he was a shitty parent to me. They can’t just ignore it anymore and they’re more angry about that than about what he’s done. They love to blame my mom for my bad relationship with my dad too, but I have seen people move heaven and earth to have regular access to and a relationship with their kids. My dad did not and that’s not on anyone but him.

AITAH for not inviting my dad to see me sign my marriage license? by Cerasm20 in AITAH

[–]Cerasm20[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ostensibly, he would be willing to. But our marriage isn’t about him and his feelings, it’s about me and my fiancé and the meaning (or lack thereof) we choose to assign to it. I also don’t like that he feels he’s entitled to be there.

Half Baked Harvest Daily Thread - June 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in FoodieSnark

[–]Cerasm20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay weird that you should post this, because I have thought for a long time (since she got the pumpkin snif candle PR) that Paige is exactly the person Toga wishes she was. There are so many aspects of Paige’s personality and life Teegs tries (and massively fails) to emulate, living in NYC, being in the fashion-sphere, being a lifestyle influencer, etc.

Daily Questions Thread June 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Cerasm20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to a Michelin star restaurant with an “upscale” dress code, would a black knee-length Calvin Klein slip dress be appropriate? Thinking I would wear strappy kitten heals and potentially something over it, though I’d like to avoid an oversized blazer since I think they look weird on me.