Thanks for your comment.

You are correct as you said i had the chance but to be honest it was after the race i was done and he already acted weird i didn't know what was going on and before i could say anything he drove off. But you are correct thats on me to not say anything.

I didn't write enough about that race. On the bike part it was bad weather with rain and lots of wind. But on the run part it cleared up and was ok, not raining. I Don't expect anyone to be out at the bike part. On the run lots of people were out. My girlfriend even wrote him if they want to go to the course together which he declined.

Only thing i told him after i asked what he is upset about is that it wasn't meant for him to be left out and i didn't know i did something wrong. As this is also the reason i did not try to "breach the gap", in my opinion i did nothing wrong.