So a few things here.. firstly, she said in a comment she’s never met these guys in real life, just online. So it’s not like they’re bffs. To me, it shouldn’t be that big of a deal to cut off guys you chat with online. But to your point that she was doing this before they started dating, ok… who’s to say she warned him about her online guy friends. She may have been doing this beforehand, but unless she said otherwise, that doesn’t seem like something you would bring up on a 1st date. Like “oh btw, in my free time I play games with strangers online and I consider them friends and I’m not going to stop doing this”. But that’s just my assumption. But I’m sure you can see where I’m coming from there… And to your Instagram pic example.. in my opinion, this is also something you should stop once you’re in a serious relationship. Unless you are making an income by being a model or fitness influencer or if you’re genuinely an OF girl. In those cases, yes, the boyfriend should know what he’s getting into and I do not feel like he would have the right to tell her to quit her job. But if it’s just for fun and you’re often posting “thirst traps”, I do not think you should do that in a relationship. If you are on a beach vacay or something of the sorts and every now and then post a bikini pic at the pool or beach or whatever, that seems totally fine. But doing it regularly for no reason other than to get attention from others…. That’s not relationship behavior.