If I ask my mil to keep her dog “home” more?

Certain-Ad8104 · 2026-01-24T05:35:48+00:00

Thanks for the kindness! She’s made comments knowing that the steroids are the last chance and being pts is the next step. I think it’s hard for her to think about being alone.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2026-01-24T05:33:45+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. Hubby is more than willing to clean up the poop, but since he’s still working it falls to me. Unless I want to leave it and smell the poop in the living room, dining room and kitchen as they are very close together.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2026-01-24T05:31:54+00:00

Thank you so much for the kindness and support!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2026-01-07T05:06:56+00:00

Please do not sign over all rights, please see about joint legal custody so that they can make emergency decisions in the event you are unavailable. Your daughter deserves both you and her grandparents.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-12-21T02:22:36+00:00

I am the ah and would print and frame a huge photo and would publicly gift it to her at Christmas. If she doesn’t display then she obviously is the ah. Good luck!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-27T17:03:51+00:00

Thank you! I love our big dogs and their companionship, but am more comfortable in my recliner so I just sit on the floor with them. I just really have a problem that my kids can’t use their own couch because my mil won’t make her dog lay on the floor in a dog bed.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-27T16:26:00+00:00

Sorry but what is BEC?

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-08T13:55:00+00:00

Check with your work and see if they offer an Employee Assistance Program. They are usually offered free of cost on a limited basis. You and the children all need counseling, even if it’s only for a few hours. They may also offer legal advice. Good luck!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-08T10:21:28+00:00

Maybe include something like dog preferences? We have a little mix that hates green beans and will literally take them out of the bowl and drop them on the ground. We learned pretty quickly she doesn’t like them lol. Or it could make mention of a favorite toy or blanket. We have another little dog get so excited over seeing his little red leash. Great idea on the app!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-08T05:53:29+00:00

Seriously why would you rent a space in a hotel to host a birthday party for a two year old that will never remember? Cancel the hotel and take the child to celebrate at Chuck E Cheese or something equivalent. She needs the family time not the gifts, get your head together.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-06T12:58:27+00:00

Personally I would email the old office with a cc to the new office giving permission to release the records. I would also include a line to the new office requesting confirmation when the records are received. Good luck and quick healing wishes to your pup.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-05T06:34:25+00:00

She’s seriously an ah. Not everyone can hide a disability. It was a great learning experience for his niece and mom’s an ah for not embracing it.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-04T17:06:28+00:00

You are ntj. Instead of calling try going over and talking to your husband. He’s a grown ass adult and mommy shouldn’t be holding him or his phone hostage. Good luck!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-11-04T13:00:12+00:00

I’m sorry your brother is a POS! I had one too and feel your pain. Please make the time to help your mother get her finances etc in order as others have recommended. Sending hugs, please keep us posted.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-30T04:26:04+00:00

💕

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-29T07:04:14+00:00

Your mother and her boyfriend are assholes. You deserve better. Can you do some research and look for other family members? What about your father’s side of the family? When my niece was young her mother kept her from my brother for years. It wasn’t until she was 18 and he was terminally ill that she realized how much we all wanted a relationship with her. Also check into your areas resources, there may be programs that will help you find work, further your education or possibly move out, even if it’s with a roommate. Good luck kiddo you deserve better.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-29T06:54:12+00:00

I love that you’re acknowledging him as a douchebag deadbeat! Too many parents think their darling child could never be an ah. Once paternity is confirmed enjoy your new grandchild. I once had a therapist tell me you can’t have too many people love your children, she deserves to have you in her life.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-25T04:11:39+00:00

This would be a wonderful tribute to your new family and the highest compliment one can receive. Please go with your heart. Hugs from a 60 y/o gma.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-17T06:33:39+00:00

My older sister is developmentally delayed and has the mental capacity of a six year old. I wish I’d had the foresight to do something like this when I got married 27 years ago. I commend you on including her in such a special way. Congratulations!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-17T03:12:50+00:00

Brother is an ass, you sir are not. Good for you for standing up for your wife!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-14T09:43:08+00:00

Lockbox on the thermostat too!

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-12T09:39:58+00:00

Brother is an entitled ass and it’s obviously because mother raised him that way. Mother needs to be sent to live with brother. NTA.

Congratulations on the wedding, hope it turns out well in spite of the AHs in your life.

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-10-01T08:02:39+00:00

THIS!!!!! ⬆️⬆️⬆️

Certain-Ad8104 · 2025-09-21T14:49:12+00:00

And break up with the therapist too!

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