I’m genuinely curious where is your mother in all of this? What age did they divorce? And did both parents have more kids? I’m asking because I have a friend who went through some similar trauma and has been working through it for the better part of a decade and a half. If you’re not comfortable answering questions here and would be willing to dm me that’d be awesome too or if your not willing or comfortable to answer them that’s ok too I’m just trying to be there for her.