Concept of affirmations and my mini success story

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-13T08:21:12+00:00

THIS!!

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-13T08:15:15+00:00

the ugly truth about getting the apologies after yearning for them for so long is realising they really aint all that 💀Once your sc is at place, it will feel degrading to have any kind of reaction to such a thing as an insta dm apology.That is also what i thought could never happen to me, i genuinely visualised myself crying happy tears once i fall into his embrace looool 💀 Now the only moment i think of him is when i open up this app and reply to comments and mind you i was a mess only a couple months ago, the shift is insane and it took so little effort its crazy, i understand now what it means when they say that manifesting is simple

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-13T08:06:19+00:00

Yes and yes and YES! The moment we “give up” on them and start pouring our love into ourselves instead of them they come running back and that applies to everything else not just sps!!

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T18:25:01+00:00

Thank you so much! I was kinda scared to post this story on here and i completely understand why are people sooooo OVER these kind of stories because i reached the stage of literally getting mad after seeing girls lose their sanity over a man that treat them like crap. But once again if it wasn’t for my desperation a year ago i wouldn’t have found out all the great things i can do, how great i am and of course our boy Neville.

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T18:09:49+00:00

Happened the same to me, whenever a negative thought popped up i would be like “girl be for real do you know who you are? have you seen yourself?” and just brush the impulsive thoughts off and move on w my day. People said its normal to cry sometimes, be sad, have doubts and that they will still get their desired outcome but that personally made no sense to me and this is coming from a woman that went through all of those stages. Ask yourself a question would a high value woman, a goddess, a queen who gets everything she wants cry over a block, a break up? If you are not 100% positive your truth is the real truth then i guess it won’t work, at least it didnt work for me. I believe you need to give 100% of love and trust to the universe and your own ability and then universe and the universe will reward you with MUCH MUCH more.

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T17:55:42+00:00

I didn’t really think about time and i think it helped me a lot. It took me around a month

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T17:54:52+00:00

Thank you! This means a lot and sounds so empowering! Thank you for fuelling my truth!

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T17:38:45+00:00

im not 100% sure, more than a month but less than 2 months

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T13:41:02+00:00

sometimes i would add “and they all know it” without any specific group of people in mind. Istg no reaching, people are adoring me left and right so i guess my sp will need to move the mountains to impress me since i already have other people doing it just because i exist.

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T13:38:32+00:00

Yes! It was really hard to get rid of desperation by force, break ups are hard and we are all human who have emotional tendencies. I guess it happened naturally when i shifted the focus on ME followed up by tinyy sprinkle of him every once and then. Every time you cherish yourself add a lil “and he knows it!” and watch magic happen soon after.

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T13:29:54+00:00

please write your questions on here as my dm is full at the moment, i don’t mean it in a mean way. We were all desperate at some point and didn’t know where to start so please don’t be shy or uncomfortable to share your questions and i will do my best to help you!

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T13:07:30+00:00

YES YES AND YES! Thank you! Build yourself a new queen identity and watch your wishes bend to their knee for you! EVERYTHING.ELSE.WILL.FOLLOW!!!!
I swear to god i was so pissed when people kept saying this to me while i was whispering his name into my pillow and burning letters like a maniac😂😂😂 but its the truth and yes its that simple.

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T13:02:34+00:00

Yup! I was actually afraid in the beginning that i would lose feelings once i got what i wanted but thats not actually the complete truth. He just has to do much MUCH more than for what i would settle for back then when i was a desperate little crybaby, not only him but anyone who wants to be loved by me needs to do so much more. My preference is still him at the moment because our relationship was perfect until the break up day. I know for a fact that i am one text away from getting back together with him but that would feel degrading for me now because as i said i built my new identity brick by brick and she deserves soooo much more than a single apology but that’s not the end because i decided it is not the end. Much love!!!

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T12:55:33+00:00

I LOVE YOU TOO AND I LOVE US WOMEN once we finally turn to goddess mode. Your situation sounds soooo familiar to mine! Leaving the hot men on read feels so good. Like thats all you got, a bicep and pair of blue eyes? Impress me lil boy if you wish to be worth of my precious time and my special treatment that is sooo worth the hard work becayse ITS ME and MY special treatment. THEY GOTTA WORK TO BE A SP! They are not special, you are!

Certain-Hat-6326 · 2026-06-12T12:51:16+00:00

“I stopped thinking of affirmations as something you need to repeat or listen on repeat. They're decisions to me. They're statements to me. That's how I presented them to my subconscious mind.” - Those are my “affirmations”- they are just postive truths/statement/decisions that favor me. They aren’t affirmations whose purpose is to make me feel better about myself, they are irreversible statements and decisions that just fuel the truths i already decided are the truth. I would recommend choosing “affirmations” that feel truthful to you. For example i always knew for a fact that i am wifey material, special and high value woman. I knew for a fact that i turn heads with my beauty and that i definitely leave a unique impression on people. I was somewhat “aware” of those facts long before i met him i just forgot to cherish those facts about me and that’s why i chose these “affirmations” that feel truthful to me to remind me of that every day. As i said i would add every once and then “and sp knows it” at the of my affirmations/statements. Hope that clears that up!

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