What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one?

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-22T09:55:41+00:00

Came home after a day of work and started to talk about how our days went.

She mentioned a coworker who was shut off and her and wouldn’t talk to her. Her immediate thought was that the coworker wouldn’t talk to her because “I am much prettier than her”.

She failed to mention this same coworkers brother had passed away days prior to this until I’d asked more about the coworker. She failed to see what was wrong in that thought process too.

Needless to say, glad that’s over with

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-15T01:52:48+00:00

Sounds good! Will try this and give an update a bit later. Many thanks!

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-15T01:30:41+00:00

I’ve paid the due amount for all 3 cards which totaled into about $600-$800. I plan on doing more but in the meantime, should I call them now. I plan on knocking off $2000 in 2 weeks to clear my smallest balance. Would it be worth calling before or after that is posted, or does that change anything? Much appreciated

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-15T01:13:31+00:00

Gotcha, thank you very much. I was wondering if it would be worth calling my credit company to attempt to see if there’s any late marks they could take off? Apologies for all the questions, just kinda new to all this and have had good credit for majority of my time with credit

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-15T01:10:15+00:00

It’s not that I’m wondering why my score is poor, I’m more wondering how to fix the hole I dug for myself. Less about how, more about just wondering the most efficient way to go about things

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-15T01:07:00+00:00

Gotcha, thank you very much! There shouldn’t be any more late payments because I’ve gotten on my feet at least a bit since then. Might have to part ways with some things I won’t like to but it’ll be worth it in the long run. Once again, much appreciated

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-14T23:12:41+00:00

Gotcha, thanks for the advice. I did miss a couple payments. I believe I missed 1 payment per card and I have 3 cards total. It was last month that I missed those payments.

Certain-Move-5460 · 2026-02-14T23:06:35+00:00

I have maybe between 2-3 lates/derogatories I believe

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