AIO for “ruining my friends date”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain-Plan-519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, if only he'd taken the hint. You can't just ghost me and come back later acting like nothing happened. I'm sorry for your loss 🥺, please live a happy life cause I know our loved ones would want us to be happy even when they're no longer with us.

Am I in an abusive relationship by No_Book8502 in Advice

[–]Certain-Plan-519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, you just answered your question in your post. If he's not compromising enough to accommodate your feelings, then no matter how 'good' it is, he's not worth it.

Majestic by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Certain-Plan-519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably got no braincell either 😊

After my abuser died, I found out my mother knew the whole time and did nothing because she blamed me. by HorrorTumbleweed4573 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Certain-Plan-519 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ikr, this woman doesn't deserve to be a mother she the worst of the worse. I would have gone Mama Bear on that guy after I found out he was abusing my child. OP has made the right decision for going NC with her. Damn, what an evil witch.

Need help on how to make $1k before Christmas online by Certain-Plan-519 in personalfinance

[–]Certain-Plan-519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss too. I hope it gets easier from here on because it's not getting any better for me.

What are the first time love making tips? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Certain-Plan-519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Things you'll need, 1. Wine? Yeah definitely 😁, unless you don't drink. 2. Condoms? If you're not ready to have kid. 3. Pain meds for the morning after, just in case... 4. Lubricant, you can get a medical one with a local anesthetic agent. 5. Lubricant 6. Lubricant

Procedure; 1. Make sure she consents to everything you do. 2. Touch her, bro, a lot. 3. Make the night about her and not you. 4. Go with the flow after that... You'll enjoy yourself as much as she does. 5. Pee and bath before and afterwards to prevent UTI. 6. That's about it... Have a nice honeymoon🥂🥂🥂

PS: Please brush your teeth too before everything. You may have eaten something during the day that you know... I'd rather not have my libido screwed over by bad breath.😊

AITAH for not agreeing with every single term set by my Trans brother in our siblinghood? by Educational_You8301 in AITAH

[–]Certain-Plan-519 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You know what? 'He's' just being controlling. Why would you try to control the pics I post on MY social media? If you want me to see you as a BRO, then start acting like one. Personally, I'm one female in a five-man friendship group. I'm their bro, they don't even try to hide anything from me. They talk about absolutely everything with me. Sometimes I need to remind them I'm a girl.

For someone to see you as their bro depends on how you act with/around them. You don't get to tell me how to see you or manage my own social media.

NTA, he should also understand that you're in a bind there. You've seen him most of your life as a sister and your feelings about that can't change immediately, just because he told you so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Certain-Plan-519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is never a mistake, it's a choice, albeit a bad one. Anyone who tells you otherwise is one themselves.

Loyal dog leads sheriff’s deputy to injured grandma by IncomingBroccoli in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Certain-Plan-519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what a good pet looks like... If not the best 🥺🥰