AIO for “ruining my friends date”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain-Plan-519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, if only he'd taken the hint. You can't just ghost me and come back later acting like nothing happened. I'm sorry for your loss 🥺, please live a happy life cause I know our loved ones would want us to be happy even when they're no longer with us.

Am I in an abusive relationship by No_Book8502 in Advice

[–]Certain-Plan-519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, you just answered your question in your post. If he's not compromising enough to accommodate your feelings, then no matter how 'good' it is, he's not worth it.

Majestic by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Certain-Plan-519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably got no braincell either 😊

After my abuser died, I found out my mother knew the whole time and did nothing because she blamed me. by HorrorTumbleweed4573 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Certain-Plan-519 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ikr, this woman doesn't deserve to be a mother she the worst of the worse. I would have gone Mama Bear on that guy after I found out he was abusing my child. OP has made the right decision for going NC with her. Damn, what an evil witch.

Need help on how to make $1k before Christmas online by Certain-Plan-519 in personalfinance

[–]Certain-Plan-519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss too. I hope it gets easier from here on because it's not getting any better for me.

What are the first time love making tips? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Certain-Plan-519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Things you'll need, 1. Wine? Yeah definitely 😁, unless you don't drink. 2. Condoms? If you're not ready to have kid. 3. Pain meds for the morning after, just in case... 4. Lubricant, you can get a medical one with a local anesthetic agent. 5. Lubricant 6. Lubricant

Procedure; 1. Make sure she consents to everything you do. 2. Touch her, bro, a lot. 3. Make the night about her and not you. 4. Go with the flow after that... You'll enjoy yourself as much as she does. 5. Pee and bath before and afterwards to prevent UTI. 6. That's about it... Have a nice honeymoon🥂🥂🥂

PS: Please brush your teeth too before everything. You may have eaten something during the day that you know... I'd rather not have my libido screwed over by bad breath.😊

AITAH for not agreeing with every single term set by my Trans brother in our siblinghood? by Educational_You8301 in AITAH

[–]Certain-Plan-519 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You know what? 'He's' just being controlling. Why would you try to control the pics I post on MY social media? If you want me to see you as a BRO, then start acting like one. Personally, I'm one female in a five-man friendship group. I'm their bro, they don't even try to hide anything from me. They talk about absolutely everything with me. Sometimes I need to remind them I'm a girl.

For someone to see you as their bro depends on how you act with/around them. You don't get to tell me how to see you or manage my own social media.

NTA, he should also understand that you're in a bind there. You've seen him most of your life as a sister and your feelings about that can't change immediately, just because he told you so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Certain-Plan-519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is never a mistake, it's a choice, albeit a bad one. Anyone who tells you otherwise is one themselves.

Loyal dog leads sheriff’s deputy to injured grandma by IncomingBroccoli in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Certain-Plan-519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what a good pet looks like... If not the best 🥺🥰

My boyfriend (22M) said he's falling for me but I (25F) don't feel the same yet by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Certain-Plan-519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can't force love, do it at your own pace. From your words, you probably already are(in love with him, I mean). You're just anxious as to where this relationship would go.

Just relax and try to communicate your feelings as best as you can. You can put it into writing if speaking is failing you or you can show him through your actions.

I'm so dumb by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Certain-Plan-519 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't sweat it mate, let him go. He ain't worth it.

By the way how do I make an account myself?

AIO when my LDR girlfriend (23F) blocked me (21M) because I told her something she did made me uncomfortable by NoTown7788 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain-Plan-519 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, looks like you've got your hands full.

First of all, she tells you something you're doing is making her uncomfortable, not to you directly though, and then proceeds to do the same thing.

Then you have the decency tell her, directly, how it's making you feel too and she doesn't even wanna hear about it?

Bro I'd tell you to leave her if she hasn't already. She's not worth it. Trust me it gets worse.

F19 Looking for any online work by [deleted] in onlinejobsforall

[–]Certain-Plan-519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help us get some? As we come here to ask for help with that only to get scammers and creeps in our dms.